and then complain the nice guys dont exist.
well, i got news for ya. we freaking exist.
but we get ignored and pushed to the sidelines.
we're here, we're stable, we're loyal. but nooooooooooo...
women seem to have some kind of built in desire to give themselves wholesale to jerks, to be used and abused, and then when these guys are done with them, they move on to other stupid women. and the women they started off with? well, now they're herpes ridden, slu t-o-maniacs, that have their lives destroyed, and do us nice guys want them now? no freaking way!
wake up women! wake up! geeze.
2006-10-22 17:25:30 · 12 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
amen dude!!! i just asked the same thing basically....here's the thread..
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnsM8Mrdkaij7I56kbX9pKzsy6IX?qid=20061022204514AA24o4w
2006-10-22 17:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by Blazzzy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all women are like that but unfortunatley a lot are, it is like total insecurity, Idon't know what is wrong with them either. My husband was my 1st boyfriend and we have now been married for 16 years, I turned down a LOT of bad guys, but one thing about my husband is he did not give up, he asked me out several times, I told him NO because I did not want some guy to think I was easy or to mislead me, so I started watching him and his behavior and I though yea this is a good one, so I agreed to go out with him and the rest is history. You will find the right one, but maybe you need to pick a good one and ask her out more than once, like my husband did with me. Good Luck =)
2006-10-22 17:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Always" would mean a woman never gets with a nice guy and that's just wrong. My boyfriend is good, we've been together for 2 years and I don't intend to leave him. So no, women don't always end up choosing the bad guys.
2006-10-22 17:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do it because they've been coddled all their lives and need some excitement. Others come from dysfunctional families and relate more easily to the bad guys because they're more familiar with that personality type.
2006-10-22 17:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by Zloar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a good guy. I look for the good guys and i dont accept the bad. Sometimes girls dont think they are good enough for the good guys and take the bad. Low self esteem would be the main reason. I am sure someone will love you oneday and you will be happy.
2006-10-22 17:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I so agrue i was like that till my man now got it in me i thought bad boys are more sexy in a way but than you can have someone who respects you and caders to you now i think about it i would have been miserible with that jerk!!! Dont care but later....
2006-10-22 17:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would a nice guy really talk that way about woman that's been emotionally abused? No, wake up! You're not a nice guy.
2006-10-22 17:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by Becca 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
men do the same thing..i think sometime its a challenge to them. they think that they can change the way they are..then there are those that are just doomed to have bad relationships forever by making bad choices...hang in there. youll find a good woman one day.
2006-10-22 17:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda3826 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me!?!?!?! I hate to tell you but not ALL women are like that I happen to like the nice guys! thank you very much!
2006-10-22 17:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do YOU go for the bad girls? from whom they're dating, i wouldn't say they're all that innocent
2006-10-22 17:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋