if your seeing a guy who tells you he really likes you, but when your with him and his friends (cos theyre usually there too) and he doesnt seem to ask you many questions like you usually would when u trying to get to know someone, is this just a guy being clueless type thing or a guy whos just looking for some?
2006-10-22 17:22:01 · 14 answers · asked by ash1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's a time n place for things, and, when it's in front of friends...emotional bonding is definitely not the time n place for it. We're not clueless, it's like some of the other said..not tryin to be a sissy, or embarass myself with relationship type questions. And NO he ain't lookin for some....damn that's not the main priority of ALL MEN....gaddamn. Anyway, yea it's kinda hard to bond when you have other people that can get into your business, especially friends....so tryin to get to know you fully at that time isn't good...it's more just enjoying the time WITH you if anything.
2006-10-22 17:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe the earlier answer was right and he doesn't want to look like a sissy -- but maybe he wants to keep your friendship himself and not let his buddies know what a cool girl he's hanging with. That would account for his not asking questions of the type you describe where his friends can overhear the answer. (And, maybe, start to wonder how come he gets to ask you friendly questions!)
2006-10-22 17:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by Dick Eney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's normal, the guy I'm dating right now does. He does show me affection though. He is usually talking to his friends. Between then we do talk as well. As long as you talk when it's just you two, your communication is good. It's just normal behavior for a guy.
2006-10-22 17:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man and I are both different people when we are with our seperate friends. That is why there is a thing called girls night out and guys night out. That way we can be ourselfs with our friends without feeling pressure from our mate to be around just them the whole time. My man acts different when we are around his friends. I think its normal. I am the same way when he is around mine.
2006-10-22 17:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by NoName 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in this situation, as the guy I probably wouldn't ask too many questions either, certainly no personal ones. I would wait until we were alone.
2006-10-22 17:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, he is not comfortable with both you around and his friends around. He doesn't know if he should be on his best behavior or be the same as he usually is with his friends. (Believe me his behavior normally with his friends wouldn't be good if he wants to keep you.) Well, have a talk with him and tell him to relax.
2006-10-22 17:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by avid_rafter765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a guy thing for some, I would try to seperate from my friends to get to know the girl myself, but it is possible that he also does not want you to feel unconfortable reveailing personal stuff in a overtly public setting where others can overhear, there are alot of variables
2006-10-22 17:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JD1215 is so right it's just a guy thing; sometimes they don't even want to touch you when you're in public, so don't feel bad.
2006-10-22 17:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to impress you with his friends. go out, 1 on 1. see how he is then. trying to get to know each other with your out with a bunch of people is kinda hopeless
2006-10-22 17:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by Blazzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me personally i dont do that i love the girl i want but cant have maybe im to good for her but ne ways either your to good for him or he likes you and dont want the guys to know how he feels
2006-10-22 17:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋