I call him to let him know, that I'm going hangout with men friends.
When i go out with my bf, sometime he doesn't want to listen about a guy I hangout with and he didn't say any words. Do you think he is mad or not comfortable?
2006-10-22 17:21:17 · 16 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he might be a bit upset, probably wants to spend time with YOU and not listen to you talk about other guys. Don't mean to be rude or anything but it seems a bit disrespectful to talk about other guys when you are with him. If you all have an understanding where he is comfortable with you going out with other guys and you are comfortable with him going out with girl friends then that's a different story, but it sounds like you are the only one enjoying this benefit. Unless you are ready to part with your boyfriend I would suggest you find out how he feels about you and your guy friends and move in a direction that will promote a healthy relationship.
Best Wishes!!!
2006-10-22 17:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy wants to hear about other guys , believe me I have been married 16 years and to this day if I even bring up the subject of Talking to a male co-worker, my husband gets all suspicious about it.
2006-10-23 00:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a bf why on earth would you hang out with other guys? I think you are playing games to make him jealous and he isn't buying it.
I don't think you guys are mature enough to have a relationship. You lack basic relationship commumication skills
2006-10-23 00:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he's uncomfortable from the way you describe it. If you like your BF you ought to have more to talk about than other men. Perhaps you could talk about the weather, sports, or his haircut before you start talking about other men.
2006-10-23 00:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Zloar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
us guys dont want to hear about the guys that u hang out with.. and thats just it .. he dont have a real problem with u going out with other men friends but he just dont want to hear a play by play of what happened even though u may be telling him to make him know that nothing happened on your date ..just talk about other stuff and he will be ok ..
2006-10-23 00:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a boyfriend, why are you hanging out with other men? I would not accept that, I am sure he is not happy with that. Put your attention to your boyfriend and enjoy good times with him.
2006-10-23 00:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by bonbon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes okay with you hanging out with your men friends and made it clear he doesnt want to hear about him than stop. Its nice to make it clear that your not hiding anything from him and are honest but i am sure you man doesnt want to hear about your time out with other guys even if they are just friends, they are still guys. and i am sure it makes him jealous. So dont bring it up anymore, i am sure you wouldnt like it if your man talked about his gatherings with his "girl" friends.
2006-10-23 00:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no men are jealous beings .... it's a dominating thing yes but he doesn't like to here about it. Just reasure him in other ways that you're into him and not the other men.
2006-10-23 00:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by John E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're going out you should be talking about each other. If all he talked about was some other girl would you be comfortable?
2006-10-23 00:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jaques S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u making him jealous with your guy friends?
what? huh? what? your dude isn't enough?
u need more guys to flirt around with?
whats wrong with you? huh?
be loyal will you? all women are the same. you're on the verge of cheating already. u might as well break up with him first then.
2006-10-23 00:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋