For the last 3 weeks I have had frequent daily heart burn and have been nauses almost everyday and every time I smell raw eggs I throw up. And my back hurts all the time too.I also have been really irriatable all the time I flipp out at the littlests things lately wich I am normally a very patient person.The last time I had sex was a month ago it was 3 days after my last period. Which was the first period I had in 2 months. And I have gained alot of weight recantly even though I excersise all the time.I am still in love with the guy who I had sex with but he has a girlfriend and just wants to be my friend and does not know I am possiably pregant. Should I tell him or just let him go and be with his gf. I did not know he had a girlfriend when I slept with him. I have mutual friends with him should I let them tell him or tell him in person. I really don't know what to do. I really need some advice please help me. Liz
2006-10-22 16:58:49 · 9 answers · asked by lovelyaquariusfairy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I am old enough to by a pregancy test I am 21 and he is 32 and one more thing to mention I am a 5 days late for my period.
2006-10-22 17:09:44 · update #1
First, do yourself a favor and get a pregnancy test. If it turns up positive, get some good medical care. After you have taken care of yourself, then schedule a meeting with the guy in a public and mutually agreed upon public place (shopping mall food court or something) at a specific time. Then tell him there, but make sure you have your ducks in a row first. Don't tell him anything until you KNOW the results of the pregnancy test.
2006-10-22 17:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok from a guys perspective, the first thing you need to do is take a test. Find out for sure that you are or are not. If you are, and you are sure he is the father he has the right to know wether or not he is in another relationship. But get a test first. Dont just go tell him you might be pregnant, if you do then you end up not showing at 5 months or not having a baby in 9 months you will look like a crazed ex trying to get him back and that never goes over to well.
2006-10-22 17:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, you should take a pregnancy test. a lot of the symptoms you are having could be pregnancy related... however, it doesn't mean you ARE... just check it out. Secondly, about the guy... it is his right to tell him you are pregnant if you are. I wouldn't tell him that you MIGHT be though... just wait till you know. If you are though, like i said, its his right- and really, YOU need to tell him. If you are afraid, you can have a friend with you to help... you may even want to consider doing it with his gf there too... that way she knows that he was unfaithful to her, but it wasn't your evil doing bc you didn't even know about her till recently- make sure she knows you were a victim of his lies too. Now, you can give him the option of being involved or not- his choice- but no bs, you know. Tell him upfront that you don't need him in and out, so if he doesn't want anything to do with the baby- fine. You'd probably be better off. Good luck!
2006-10-22 17:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by tiyona17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi :) i'm 12 weeks at present and final week I too lost very almost all of my indications... I have been given rather frightened, yet via fact the week handed, i spotted that I nevertheless had indications, merely no longer as stable, and not all the time. additionally, I figured if there have been a significant concern, i could have greater effective than a loss of severe fatigue :) Like different pronounced, on the top of your first trimester or the beginning up of your 2nd trimester your hcg ranges start to point off and not have a similar result on you.. that's a competent concern :) once you're frightened call your well being practitioner :)
2016-11-24 23:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say 1st take a pregnancy test, and find out IF you are pregnant at all. next, after you find out that you are pregnant.... dont rely on friends to tell someone something that personal. you are old enough to tell him yourself. your symptoms sound as if you may be pregnant.... but at the same time, it could be the result of a lot of other things as well... the best advice i could give you would be to go see a doctor either way... good luck, and remember do not mention a baby to this guy, until you have actually found out that you are pregnant.
2006-10-22 18:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by apple martini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not late yet, I take it. Are your breasts sore? That is the first symptom that I had. Usually ovulation occurs around 14 days after the first day of your period. Since you are so irregular, who knows! I would wait until you are late from when you would normally start and then do a home pregnancy test.
2006-10-22 17:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first comes first, how old are you? and Can you go buy a pregnancy test if you can go do that first and if it comes back that you are then you need to talk to him he has a right to know, and maybe he will choose the right chose but some men don't and they will walk away. And if you aren't old enough to get a test then go to a bigger sister, your mom, or someone you trust to keep it a secret until it is a for sure thing!
2006-10-22 17:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by Chandra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you tell him your pg, if you don't know? Take a test only way to find out.
2006-10-22 17:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take a test first and if i was, i would tell him gf or not.
2006-10-22 17:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋