I tell my sister everything & when she gets pissed at me she back fires & says every ****** up personal **** I told her...For example I told her about my bf & when she was pissed she said "He's probebly cheating on you anyways!" **** like that...She's done this more then once...I don't think I can trust her anymore..but she's all I got to talk to really...I don't have anyone else....Should I trust her???Even though when she's pissed she says messed up stuff..?
2006-10-22 16:54:50 · 15 answers · asked by Savanna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The best thing to say to anyone is only the things you do not care who hears what you have to said. Unless of course you know without a doubt they will not say. I would not trust your sister anymore though. LL.
2006-10-22 17:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as she isn't spilling your business to the world it shouldn't be TOO bad, she's only using it against you. Stuff like that can be discussed over, cause it's YOUR business after all....but if she can't be trustworthy enough to hold dear your secrets and stuff then you need to just find a good friend you can trust...blood's thicker than water but it doesn't specify how thick the blood is sometimes.
2006-10-23 00:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say you can trust her. she is just using that to get back at you. she has not betrayed your confidentiality to others so she is trustworthy. I would not worry to much about it. She gets mad so she lashes out and is using something to get the last word. You also might find some friends you can trust, but this is often a difficult thing.
2006-10-22 23:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can trust people, Honey but it's a Hood rule that your family will stab you in the back first.. You never disclose your personal life to a family member.. For one if you decide to continue kicking it with the guy she is going to already have animosity towards him.. See you can forgive him, but she doesn't have to.. In this situation it sounds like misery loves company..Find someone else to talk too !!
2006-10-23 00:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should keep your **** to yourself! Sounds like she doesnt want to tell you things when shes not mad cuz will hurt your feelings, and sees that your upset , and finally when shes had enuff of your ****, then she'll tell you about "he's prob cheating on you" . Only because she cares, and knows you love him. That's looking out for a sis to me! P.S. gotta good lookin mfer for ya!
2006-10-23 00:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by nikki s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a mess but yes their are some people left u can trust....
2006-10-22 23:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by stantonshoemaker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the point in telling her stuff when you know it's going to come back to you.One should not even trust their own shadow.
Don't trust anyone except God.
I don't think you should trust her anymore because she won't stop doing that.
2006-10-22 23:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by ABCD 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
From your question you guys are young and with some sisters this stuff happens.
Stop telling her so much about your personal life.
Believe it or not one day she will be one of your best friends.
2006-10-23 00:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't trust anyone. There are a few people I give the benefit of the doubt, but not many. It's every man for himself these days.
2006-10-22 23:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by tinydancer 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Trust your sister.
Yes she fights a bit dirty.
Don't you say anything mean when your angry?
Let it slide.
2006-10-23 00:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋