Recently she rings me up and is crying over the phone because she had a major fight with her parents about moving out. I could barely even make out what she was saying, and she ends up saying she needs time and hangs up on me...........i tell her i'm there for her if she feels like talking later on but she replies that she doesn't want to talk. Any advice would be great.........cheers guys and gals
2006-10-22 16:45:37 · 5 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
obviously she needs space and time - so give it to her. Let her be the one to call you first. When she has calmed down she will call you and want to discuss her matters with you on a rational level.
If she has not called you in two weeks go around to her house and just hug her (if she lets you) mayne she just needs the warmth of a hug but has a hard time asking for one. Or talk to her in a rational level. She is probably hurt and confused about the argument with her parents and needs someone to talk to. And unfortunetly you have been victimised by her.
Give her the time she needs and things will sort out. If she does not come back to you maybe it is for the best.
2006-10-22 16:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by ness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said the right thing. You can only offer to listen and be there for her. You might want to locate her and make sure she is okay. I remember the feelings I felt when I argued with my parents and I felt like the world was ending. Find her and make sure she is safe and okay.
2006-10-22 16:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by Honeybuns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time.....try not to talk about it, if she brings the topic up, then tell her she can count on you, but if she doesn't, then leave things like that......cause if she doesn't bring the subject up is probably cause she doesn't want to talk about it, but she will when she gets better.......just be patient with her, and show her that you care for her and that you'll be there for her if she needs you!! Good Luck
2006-10-22 17:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thts werid, just bak off for a wile byeee
2006-10-22 17:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by Tessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, she will talk when she is ready. Just don't force her, okay? Be there for her.
2006-10-22 16:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋