I am so in love with my boyfriend even though he just broke up with me. I need to know what kind of love is it when you love a man so much that even though he is the one that has caused you pain only he can console you and make it better. I am mad, I am hurt, I am sad, and I feel confused, but nothing can make me feel butter but him. Not in a get back together kind of way or not in a sexual kinda of way. I mean make this pain go away by telling me it will be ok kind of way. Let me know that I will be fine or that everything is alright. What I am simply asking is what kind of love is it that even though a person makes you feel everything I feel when it homes to hurt and pain that person is the only person who can make it better even if the out come is the same which is us not being together.
2006-10-22 16:30:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is this saying that it is amazing how someone can break your heart and yet you can still love this person with every single piece of your heart. You wil be fine, not sure when or how. All I can say is that one day you´ll wake up and realize that you are not thinking more about him,that you are happy and still alive and I promise you that day would come.
2006-10-22 16:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by vargasandres99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be OK and stronger than you were to start with. These words may seem incomprehensible to you at the moment, but they are true. You will get through the pain. Some hearts can feel divine love easily, while other hearts feel only the human love, and there is a big difference. One kind of love can not recognize the other. A long story shortened - it may take some time, but you will be yourself again, don't worry.
2006-10-22 16:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a broken love and as time passes it will get better i promise but i know how you feel.I just went through a break up but that person knows how she hurt me and i actually think it makes them feel a high that we are so weak. i haven't called for a week and i ignore her when shes on line just like she does me but it makes me feel better to know i'm starting to care about me again. You'll do the same the pain will lessen and you will find love again its just too fresh right now let it go someone will walk your way good luck
2006-10-22 16:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this, but it seems like an addicting type of love. You become so in love with someone that they become a part of you, and that you need them in order to be ok. It is so incredibly hard to get over this type of experience, but to keep a relationship of friends after this break up will cause you loads of pain. If you are both willing to try it, then go for it. Just be aware that it will never be easy being around him, and there is a lot more pain to come. Good luck with everything, and remember that you can handle it yourself if you have to.
2006-10-22 16:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl, love is like that sometimes....They hurt is deeply, and we still can't stop loving them.....That's just life, I don't think this kind of love has a name, it's only something we feel, we just suffer because of someone we trully care about...and I'm going almost through the same thing, I miss a guy so bad, and it hurts.....But we must try to let go, and move on....It's not easy, I know that, and I'm sure you do too.....but sometimes we have no choice but to move on!! Good Luck
2006-10-22 16:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completly understand this kind of love. Its a kind of love without a description. It a kind of love that is more of in infatuation. What im tryin to say is that this kind of thing is a result of revolving all of your time, feeling, love, and trust around one person. This dosnt mean you did anything wrong but its time for what i call "spring cleaning" This type of love is actually unasafe. Not physicall but emotionally unsafe. Stress is a major result and stress is harmful. But look at this as a learning experience. Now you know how this kind of love is and what the results of them are. You need to move on. Dont dwell on hime. Erase his number and everything that remains of him.Life goes on baby. It will be ok.. You will be ok.. just keep yourself occupied and dont worry
2006-10-22 16:37:49 · answer #6 · answered by mizz_toree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun it's over, but its all good if you wanna hold on to the past, it just makes the pain easier, i've been there done that,it will hurt you in the long run, be yourself,i mean who else better can be? go out buy a thong, look at yourself in the mirrow, you'll find true love soon hun
2006-10-22 16:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point you need to let it go and you need to accept it and move on with your life find something else to do besides thinking of him. Maybe it is not in the stars for you that you should be with this person, leave the thought of him behind if he is the one he will be back if not let him go and don't look back.
2006-10-22 16:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey I hope that every thing goes well for you. The kind of love that you are describing is a good strong kind of love! If he does not appreciate you then someone else will.
2006-10-22 16:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand exactly what you mean, but...you're looking to him (it seems) to fulfill every role. No one person can be everything to us, that's why we need a diverse mix of friends, family, colleagues, and acquaintances to fill in the gaps. If you look to one person for everything you're expecting more than they're able to give you.
Time will heal it, it always does. Good luck!
2006-10-22 16:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by Gotham*City*Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋