Is it okay to be in so much in love with a person that you would marry them then and there if they would ask you? I mean i've never felt that way about anyone before and this girl I see for the first time, I just lose it, its like I know that I want to spend my whole life with her. Is it okay to feel that way? Or is it crazy?
P.S. Its not sexual attraction, she just struck me out of the million girls around me everyday.
Also, what if she doesn't reciprocate my feelings (cause she doesn't (i wrote her a sonnet) and she said she wasn't interested and was interested in someone else) What should I do?
2006-10-22 16:13:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try establishing a friendship first. Get to know her and allow her to get to know you. Be a real Friend to her not one with ulterior motives. You are going to have to check you affections and keep you true feeling under lock and key for a while. We as women need to establish trust before we offer our hearts. You may not know of her past relationship and how it may have affected her. Give her enough space to breath and think. When you see her, ask her how she's doing. Have a get together and invite her and her closest friends, show her you are a person well liked and can be respected as an individual. If it's meant to be I am sure she will come around and see the romantic Suave gentleman you really are. I am routing for ya!
2006-10-22 16:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a high school boy, there is no such thing as Love At First Sight. I don't care how many book or movies you seen that profess there is.
There is no perfect man or woman for one person. Relationships are something that has to be worked on .... and a near perfect relationship takes a whole lot of work.
By the way no woman is gonna want to read what you feel in a letter or poem, if you are not man enough to speak the words to her face.
What you should do is slow down and become friends with her and not profess your love until many days after she gives you at least a kiss (she kiss you). And when you talk to her ... Talk to her (no pick up lines), listen to the things she say and answer honestly.
2006-10-22 16:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would be flattered if someone wrote a sonnet for me. If she cannot be turned your way with that personal touch, them I think she cannot really appreciate your talents or you. Pain-full as it
maybe, you need to move on. Perhaps in time she may come to appreciate you.
2006-10-22 16:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by geri11066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you. Its called infatuation. Love is a two way street. If she has no feelings for you. keep moving!
If everyone in the world lived by the golden rule(treat people the way you would like to be treated)(do unto others as you would like done to yourself) what a great world this would be.
2006-10-22 16:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO your not crazy ,you asked her and she rejected you that is her free choice and you must respect that .Rejection is hard for every one but learn to get over it and move on there are plenty of girls or women who want a nice male .KEEP TRYING to find them.You will !!
2006-10-22 16:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You messed up at the sonnet man. You should have writen a haiku or limerick.
2006-10-22 16:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by TheAnwserer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER!!! that is the best way to start. become friends first. let her become comfortable with you before asking her out. and (unless you have know her for a while) get to know her.
2006-10-22 16:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by rrrctraptor31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since she isn't interested, it's time to move on. It sounds more like you have a crush on her.
2006-10-22 16:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look through another million ladies --- let her know you care and are there for her but if she does not like you there is nothing to be done
2006-10-22 16:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fate. I'm sure she'd feel the same way.
2006-10-22 16:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by simplyjaxxs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋