I have a boyfriend and were really close but sometimes i hear that he's been hangin out with other girl and he never calls me I always call him. Sometimes i think he likes me cause of my looks and that im a good kisser (he said)
2006-10-22 16:01:35 · 13 answers · asked by karrahbissett11 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes he loves u,he'sthe same as me,u sound like my girlfriend.
2006-10-22 16:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ramon O 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My answer is simple but honest.. i don't know and i don't think anyone ever knows if your bf really loves you.. because of the fact that he's your bf, not ours.
The only people that can answer this question is you and your boyfriend. What you need to do, if you haven't already, is talk to him.. a serious, honest and mature talk and ask him these questions that you're wondering about. Also, relationships are based on trust. Ask yourself.. "Do I really trust him?" and if your answer to that is no... then you need to rethink your being in a relationship with him.
I wish there was more I can say to help but truthfully, you know your boyfriend and your relationship with him better than anyone else here does.
Don't get caught up thinking too much bout "what if he's..." cuz then that leads to assumptions that you're never gonna be sure about unless you talk to the source... which is your bf first..
Whatever you do... follow your heart, trust your instincts and be yourself. Best wishes to you and your love. :)
2006-10-22 23:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by just a girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds familiar... What does your gut tell you? You don't have to go on question forums to know that. It sounds to me like he is cheating. Especially if you hear he has been with another girl. Not good signs. Some people are really optimistic. I listened to them, but it turns out, my gut was right all along. Always trust your female instinct.
2006-10-22 23:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by FreeTruth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him if you can hang out with him and that girl. Then you can see how they act around eachother. It doesn't seem like he doesn't love you. Just make sure he isn't breaking plans that you 2 have in order to go with her. Then I would start worrying. If your worried cuz he doesn't call you, then instead of you calling him, I would say to him "call me later, or call me at so&so time" Good Luck
2006-10-22 23:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys tell their girls they are good kissers, what else would they say? Dont call him for awhile see how long it takes him to call you see and what he says. The guy sounds like a loser, if he loved you you would know.
2006-10-22 23:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by rc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. He is just not into you as well. From the scenario you state. If a guy is hooked on you, he will want to see or hear from you anytime of the day. (I suggest you read the book 'He's just not into you')
2006-10-22 23:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about the other girl face to face. Ask if he's been cheating on you. Watch his eyes and if he blinks alot-- meaning more often than would be usual and this will be noticeable on observation he's lying.
2006-10-22 23:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by Dean * 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg. the same thing happened to me. but...mine turned out to be true. my advice to you is to just play it cool. if your dying to know then ask him...but only once. if he tells you something, and you think that hes lying...then try to be around him more. show him what he has! if that doesnt work...then when your around him, flirt with other guys and make him jealous!!! good luck
p.s. remember to let him chase you...dont chase him
2006-10-22 23:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by rona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can prove he is cheating ditch him. You have the looks and the kiss. I'm sure other guys would line up for you.Two can play his game ;)
2006-10-22 23:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by simplyjaxxs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, if he never trys 2 talk 2 you or hangs out with other girls then he doesnt truely love u
2006-10-22 23:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by caseydaterrier 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋