she has a very bad headache and i hoped that it goes away when she stays home in weekend but it didn't get better.
the punched her badly in head and stomech and neck...
i talked to the principal but she said she didn't get any report about it from any of kids.
it is for more than one month that they startewd attaching her physically,before that it was just calling names and...
i would bring her tomorrow to doctor but i don't know what should i do?
the school principle is such a racist ( anti -muslims ) and my daughter said that if she says something about those kids the principle put her in truble so she stays calm and even doesn't fight bach and those kids by knowing the principle ,do whatever they want.
the principle doesn't realize by putting down one kid, nothing would change.
i don't know if i should change her school or resist ?
this school is so close to my university and since i am a single mother it is so convenient but i don't want my kid became victim of my conveniece.
2006-10-22 15:48:30 · 16 answers · asked by me 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Get your daughter to a doctor and call the police about this. Your daughter was criminally assaulted. And discrimination on the basis of religion is illegal.
2006-10-22 15:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No child has to go through this pain and suffering. I feel for you and your child. I would advise contacting the police and file a complaint against the school authority. You may seek advice of an attorney also (the court will appoint an attorney if you don't have money to pay; also, some will give you free advice). Take your child to the doctor and record it as evidence of this attack. Take pictures of any bruises. Your child may want to change school because of this experience. She may need professional counseling, as well. Racism is an ugly thing and adults should teach children to accept people as who they are and not based on races. Racism is taught; it is not something that one is born with. This type of behavior should not be acceptable in any school. They should have learned by now what prompted the shooting in some of the schools.
2016-03-28 04:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you say you are a Muslim? That doesn't matter to me, I am a Christian and I have compassion for everyone. You have a crime commited against you and your daughter. I suggest that you take your daughter to the Doctor immediately as soon as you finish reading this. She may have some internal problems that need to be addressed. Call the police before this problem continues to escalate. Teach your daughter to defend herself and if the Principal continues to do nothing report her to the School Board. If you don't do anything they could kill your daughter next time. She still has to attend school there, is there another one she can go to? Step up to the plate and handle your business, that is your child, act like it.
2006-10-22 15:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mae G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi f2016:
Protect your child with all your strength, with all your love. Take her to the doctor tomorrow and make sure that she gets a good test and a written report from the doctor.
No child should be subject to this type of violence and abuse. These girls are out of control but what is serious about this is the lack of support from the school director. She should have looked into this. It is not enough to say that no one reported the incident - it is her obligation to investigate and find out what happened.
If the school is not offering support, please remove your child from that school. If other schools are far away, you may like to consider home-schooling. It is a good choice.
Protect her and love her - if necessary report this incident to the police or to a Human Rights group.
2006-10-22 15:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Agua 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to take her to the Doctor. Somethings wrong
if she still has a head ach. Then go to the police station and
file a report. This way it will be on file should this happen
again. Have her start walking home with a friend. Plus You
need to tell that Principle that if this happens again you will
have his job. Don't take that bull. And don't move because
of idiots like that.
2006-10-22 15:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by lavada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One week after the attack, and your baby is still in pain?
TAKE HER TO THE EMERGENCY ROOM OR YOUR FAMILY DOCTOR.
She could have internal damage or a concussion. She needs to be examined.
Do NOT coddle the criminals that battered her, or the school that puts up with this kind of crap. You have the freedom to exercise your own faith in this country! You have to press charges in the school, and maybe in the courts, to protect NOT ONLY your child, but other children that this could happen to!
There is a thing in this country called "ZERO TOLERANCE". There should be a zero tolerance towards violence in your child's school. I don't care if your child's principal hates Islam, he still has a responsibility to do his job, or he should get fired.
SEE A DOCTOR.
PRESS CHARGES.
PROTECT YOUR CHILD.
Don't make the same mistake I did. It does not make you "more spiritual" to invite or put up with suffering or abuse. It only makes you a punching bag.
I'm a Christian.
2006-10-22 16:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by MamaBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report the principal to the school board. If that doesn't work, take your kid out of the school and move her to another school, possibly another district. If the school board doesn't take your case seriously then contact a lawyer or the ACLU
2006-10-22 15:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so calm? I'd be raising all sorts of hell.
You need to get to the bottom of this and correct it. Don't be afraid to go directly to the parents and get their promise (in front of their child) that they will not allow their child to act that way and get them to agree that it is ok for you to call them if it happens again.
Get the parents of the kids on your side (which any decent parent will be) and it will stop. You need someone the child is actually afraid of, otherwise you risk them taking things out on your kid.
Good luck.
2006-10-22 15:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO TO THE POLICE!! and tell them everything that you just wrote here. Tell them AND show them how your daughter is hurting.THEN get a copy of the hospital report so you can sue those NASTY little girls AND their nasty parents..good luck and keep your daughter out of school or switch schools.. people like that are DANGEROUS and you DONT deserve that. GO TO THE POLICe and REPORT the principle....that school should be put under INVESTIGATION... PLEASE go to the police...good luck!
2006-10-22 16:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by thatgirluknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're willing to fight this, contact the board of education. You might also want to contact a lawyer. Or, just transfer her to another school. Either way, she shouldn't have to put up with that any longer.
2006-10-22 15:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋