Is it okay to be in so much in love with a person that you would marry them then and there if they would ask you? I mean i've never felt that way about anyone before and this girl I see for the first time, I just lose it, its like I know that I want to spend my whole life with her. Is it okay to feel that way? Or is it crazy?
P.S. Its not sexual attraction, she just struck me out of the million girls around me everyday.
Also, what if she doesn't reciprocate my feelings? cause it is causing me much pain right now.
2006-10-22 15:46:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that feeling...isn't it wonderful?!!!!! Yes, it's ok to love & be in love. Because it's not sexual attraction, you know it's the real thing! I feel the exact same way about my friend. I can't imagine spending my future with anyone else. Go for it! Good luck!
2006-10-22 15:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by PD GAL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem very infatuated with this girl. Marriage is alot more serious, believe it or not, than infatuation. You have to get to KNOW someone because marriage is a very very serious decision. Alot of marriages end because when you're suddenly "thrown" together, there are alot of surprising things you find out, that just maybe you're not too pleased about; bad habits, etc. Dating and being with someone day after day after day is an altogether different story. But I DO know exactly how you feel because I went through it. Sadly, after my marriage, I realized I made a terrible mistake, and it was too late. And please don't say that would never happen to you.
2006-10-22 22:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad Idea! You never want to rush into something like that, it is really amazing how your feeling for someone can change fast trust me. I have been through this before totally in love one week and ready to say goodbye the next. I have learned a good lesson wait it out, if you are still in love with someone after a year then you probably know enough about them to start thinking about marriage. Anything before that is to short, people are never themselves when you first meet them, they hide their bad sides.
2006-10-22 22:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by malisimo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always okay to be in love with someone. We have no control over that. It's how you act on it or not that makes the difference. Feel any way you wish but, take it very, very slow. Get to know her. It is not crazy to feel that way.
2006-10-22 22:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. When picking out a mate it will affect you for the rest of your life. so put some thought into it. Don't be too rash. You need to ask yourself do i really what to live the rest of my life with this person.
2006-10-22 22:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by KSJTam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might be OK to feel this way....but I'd be cautious about expressing your feelings until you have some feeling she feels the same way...otherwise so much attraction might seem frightening to some in such a short time
2006-10-22 22:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by bald_guy69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her and see how she feels for you. You are in love and nothing crazy about that.
2006-10-22 22:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is love at first sight..
Be her friend..get close to her..to know if it's reciproc..
If yes GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO FOR IT
I really wish u good luck..
Lucky you..!!
2006-10-22 22:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smack her around and let her know who's the boss.
2006-10-22 22:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its normal to bump into your soulmate
2006-10-22 22:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋