I've been in love with a co-worker for over 2 & 1/2 years now. We can not be together due to company rules. We dated descretly for a while, but the risk of of job loss is too great. Also, it complicates things because we see each other daily at work. Sometimes we have lunch together or do things as friends. When i am with him I am feel so good and so happy. Even if it is only watching TV, playing vedio games or just hanging out.
I try not to think of him, but I always find myself compairing others to him in the back of my head.
I am in the process of going back to school so that in a few years I can work somewhere else.
Am I crazy, to think we can be together then? Why can't I move on? He has never told me that he loves me. But I know I love him.
2006-10-22 15:43:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That's a tough one. I would try to find out if he loves you. If he really does then I would try to find another job. You have loved him for so long. You need to be with him.
2006-10-22 15:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always want the one you cannot have. It's the game that life plays on us and we just have to deal with it. Right now, you have two choices: a) get over him and cut your losses or b) wait and see -- not now does not mean never.
It can't hurt to go back to school and work elsewhere, then see what happens.
The reason you can't move on is that you already have your heart set on this guy. I call this the law of impenetrability -- no two objects can occupy the same space at the same time.
2006-10-22 15:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by mpicky2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen. Love is a hurtful, hurtful thing, and love isn't going to be the same in every man. To move on will take time. It's not going to be as easy as throwing away a pair of shoes, this is a heart and there's steps you must take to forget. If love was meant to be... You would know it. It would be as if you two were one. He never told you loved you. He never told you that? I feel he only loved your body and not your heart. Love and lust can be twisted together so tight, that it is hard to see the sun for the trees in your way. I hope this helps.
2006-10-22 15:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by 3Dlover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me clue you in on something about LOVE, you cannot stop LOVE, Once you really know you LOVE someone. No matter what comes along. you cannot stop LOVE. When you separate you go thru a period of hurt and then anger, but after this The LOVE comes right back up.Time does heal all Wounds. But like i said you cannot shut LOVE off once you fall in love. I still LOVE my daughters Mother. We broke up in 73 and i can honestly say i still lover her. I didn't say Life would end, matter of fact you will live and it makes you stronger and wiser. so good luck. and go on with your life.
2006-10-22 17:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by duc602 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not suppose so! Haha. I love the whole lot! I do not hate something (with a couple of exceptions) both =] MP: I have no idea what both of them are, however Tzaziki in view that it has a groovy identify! *hugs*
2016-09-01 01:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by bachinski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just keep on seeing each other if you care for each other like that. And then one of you move on when the chance comes along so you can be together.
2006-10-22 15:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by one_sahara 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have your anwser in your question has he ever said ounce has he loved you think long hard-- here the old saying goes if you love somebody that badly, see it free- if he never returns- you know it was never there-- theres your anwser move onn downe that lonely highways, sorrie, but sadly that life, lights are out on this one---
2006-10-22 15:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is too short to waste it with a guy that you are not even sure if he loves you or not! there's a lot of fish in the ocean so go fishing!
2006-10-22 16:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Grace W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to school and get a new life and move on
2006-10-22 16:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by Linda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's abby?
Have you been dating him for two years? Your in a sucky situation. Does he want to be with you too?
2006-10-22 15:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋