ok, my dad is dating a monster. he even wants to marry her.he spends less time with me.
2006-10-22 15:39:30 · 8 answers · asked by soccer_blue_chica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
is she really a monter, or is it that you dont like the idea of Dad dating and/or showing affection to some one other than *his little girl* ??? be honest with urself... really get to know this woman who is taking some of dads time... challenge urself to give at lest 4 hrs a wk to sit and talk to her, finding out some of her fav. things... make a list of questions you would like to ask her, NOT personal ones, but everyday ones, fav. color, movie, music, artist, etc...... tell her a story about your child hood, and then ask her to tell you one about herself.. if she happens to ask you what is going on, be HONEST with her, tell her about your doubts and that this is your way of being open to new ppl in your dads life... God bless
2006-10-22 15:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little jealous I see. He is probably spending money on her too (Less for you) I assume you live with your mom (hmmm I wonder if your mom has said "she is a monster" and brought up the fact he is spending less time with you)
Sorry to tell you dear but, when parents divorce the focus shifts from the child to the parents.
But, the fact is when you start dating and move away to go to college, you will be ditching him, for your new bf and school.
My suggestion:
Why not invite her along on your weekends with him (to the movies, to the cider mill, to the corn maze) Invite her to your school functions. Learn how to "make nice"
And remember when you pick you mate, pick someone you will want forever, not til "when I get bored".
2006-10-22 16:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by monster. it stands clear that what are you are feeling for you dad girlfiend is pure jealousy. you feel that if your dad get married that you will be thrown by the waste side your dad will always be apart of your life because your children are your children and there is nothing like the love of a parent. so get over it and grow up.
2006-10-22 16:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one question im guessing that this monster never spends time with you meaning she's keeping your dad away from you and not spending enough time with you.Well i would sit down and speak with your dad.Tell him you want more attention.If your dad loves you he will never marry a monster(girlfriend).Beleive me if the child hates the wife the father never stays with her.
2006-10-22 15:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by stacy_diva_girl619 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
by calling her a monster you are only giving her a name and not telling us which kind of monster she really is i think you should give us a bit of the sitaution to relate with or else people might think here that you feel threatened and jealouse of her presence with your father over. so retype this question and let me know so that i can proffer a better solution.
2006-10-22 15:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. He may not listen to you, but you will have given it your best shot.
You didn't say how old you are and whether you have siblings. If you have brothers and sisters; do they feel the same way? The more family members stating their feelings, the more your dad is likely to listen.
2006-10-22 15:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by expatmt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him.
http://archive.recordonline.com/archive/2005/05/26/kidsadvi.htm
2006-10-22 15:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it over with him!!!!! he needs to kno ur feelings about that...that.......thing he's dating
2006-10-22 15:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋