There's this guy i really like. He had his friend ask me out for him and i said no thinking it was a joke. AT that time i did't like him. Now i do. Everytime i see him in the hallway though, he's like avoiding me and he hasn't said a word to me in forever. I really like him and i only catch him staring at me once in a while. Please help! I dont have a clue what to do and i am too shy to ask him if he still likes me, after all whe haven't said a word to each other in like 4 months. Last year he was really annoying too but in a playful way.
I miss 4 months ago. His friends talk to me but he does't. What do i do?
2006-10-22 15:36:34 · 12 answers · asked by i <3 him. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well this is what i think, i think that you should write him aletter since you are so shy and tell him that you do like him and that you are sorry that you missed understood his friend and i think that you should tell him that you are shy and that u would have talked to him sooner but he was not talking back and just write him or talk to him in person how ever you feel comftorable and if u write him aletter you should tell him to write you back or tell him to call you and if he does not write you back then you will no how he feels.I hope that i have helped you in anyway i possiable can.
2006-10-22 15:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he got someone to ask you out for him, than it probably wasn't a joke. He probably got offended or something when you said no and that is what is causing the awkwardness. I think you just need to sit down and talk with him. Tell him what your feelings are and tell him that you don't want to feel awkward around him anymore. I guarantee that you'll feel a lot better once you get that off your chest and tell him. And who really cares if he doesn't really like you, or doesn't want to be your friend, because all you'll have is regrets later in your life if you don't talk to him now. Hope this helps
2006-10-22 22:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your going through, and your best idea is to look at things through his eyes. Think of it like this, if you were to have asked him out through a friend, and he would have said no, would you still try to talk to him? No, you would feel awkward around him, which is the natural response to rejection. If you really do still like him and want things to go back to how it was before, you have to let him know you want to talk to him, not expect it the other way around. Good luck if you decide to pursue a relationship with him, through experience i can tell you it won't be as easy as before, but it will definately be worth it :)
2006-10-22 22:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd hate 2 break it 2 u but I think he's moved on. He realized that u r out of his league and he doesn't want to chase after someone that isn't chasing him back. If u knew what was good 4 u, u'd move on since he did.
2006-10-22 22:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by amber b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your move girl. There's nothing that will hurt worser than not knowing at all. He might play hard to get, so watch out.
2006-10-22 22:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by 3Dlover 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance and ask him out. Sacrifice something so he knows it's real. Apologize if it comes to that.
2006-10-22 22:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and tell him that you are sorry but you thought it all was a joke and that you really do like him. Tell him that you wish he had ask you himself.
2006-10-22 22:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apologize. explain what happened and also say u didn't say anything for 4 months because you didnt know what to say
2006-10-22 22:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by Eurale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just ignoring you cause you rejected him,girl! He still likes you, he does. Make a moveee
2006-10-22 22:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid. talk to him. youll always regret it if you dont pursue this.
2006-10-22 22:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by standstill 22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋