I speak with the one i love right now.I'll be so depressed without him and i know i should be making myself happy 'cause can't nobody else do that but he does.As long as we don't argue i feel so happy inside and i love it.I don't want to need someone to help keep me strong and motivated to do good in my life but he does that for me.But if he's not there i feel it's so hard to go on...What can i do about this?I don't want to depend on someone for anything 'cause then you end up disappointed.
2006-10-22 15:36:08 · 9 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we need to share ---- our feelings our thoughts and when we find someone that we can share with and who shares with us we feel complete
yes we must find happiness from within ourselves yet having someone help us find the happiness is not wrong especially if we help them find happiness within themselves
2006-10-22 15:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are OCD, hee hee. Honestly, I read an article last year that said that love is just one of those weird brain chemistry things like an obsession. Not saying this is all bad, just know that it will change and you may become less giddy. My husband and I have been married for seventeen years and there may not be electricity in the air continually, but when the kids go to bed we still have our close time!!
One more thing, don't let him consume you and your personality, always remember who you are. Nothing wrong with sharing your life, but you are a special person too!
2006-10-22 15:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ernimay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok sweetie
us humen i dont understand this
we are searching for our partner in life and when we will do find them we look for anything to ruin either by thinking negative which is somewhat normal
all i have to say ride it
dont hold back because u will regret it if it ever end u will always asked ur self what if i did this i did that but bottom line its over
and also if he makes u happy let it be
in relationships there will be argruments but as long u deal with the issue in a mature way u will be ok
dont worry sweety ride this one for what it has to offer and don t worry becuase if it works out u will be a happy girl for life
good luck
2006-10-23 03:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That will get easier as you get older. You start to realize your priorities and your self worth. Surround yourself with as many friends as possible and try to stay busy doing things that don't always include him. Things with school, or friends, or take up bellydancing or anything where you can learn to value your alone time. This makes time with him even better because he sees how strong and independent you are. Guys find this VERY attractive. But really, don't do it for him, do it for yourself. Chances are, you won't marry this guy. No really. You probably won't even though I know you THINK you most definitely will. Every girl goes through this. I've been there and done it.
2006-10-22 15:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by RayRay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That happens 2 every1 ur just really depressed & need some1 2 talk 2. I know what that's like. Just try 2 do what u like & try not 2 let the bad stuff effect u that much. I know it's hard.
2006-10-23 02:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by lakersfan_4life1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would just say don't get your hopes up to high. Some people show one side of them until you really get to know them.I know exactly what your talking about on how someone can make you feel so good.But don't get blinded with him remember your self on how you live and what you like to do.
2006-10-22 15:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well one is it a friend boyfriend or husband? if its a friend then try a boyfriend if its a boyfriend or a husband thats natural just dont splitt for a while until you completely know what your doing with yourself.
2006-10-22 15:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by none 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because everyone likes to knwo that there is someone who loves adn cares for them. everyone needs someone, thats why humans arent asexual.
2006-10-22 18:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fine that only means u love him alot
2006-10-22 15:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by cartmen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋