First of all I'd like to get only women's opinions.
I would like to know what you look for before you get into a relationship? Anythings from an emotional connection all the way to long hair, anything that you look for.
I know every woman is different, so I'm asking for what you in particular look for.
2006-10-22 15:28:15 · 8 answers · asked by clarity_is_peace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i have to be attracted to him first, then its the rest of him: personality and interests, that are the deciding factors of if i would want to be with him. he has to make me laugh and make me feel safe.
2006-10-22 15:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by standstill 22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can he make me laugh? That's a big one for alot of women...a funny guy can make any woman look at him and think twice. Also are you one that we can feel comfortable around talking about anything....women are natural born talkers but we want to know that our audience won't judge us too harshly about whatever it is we are discussing. Goals and ambitions....I want to know that you care enough about yourself, your life, and your future that you at least have some kind of goal set for yourself. After that it's the other stuff....are you trustworthy and honest, what kinds of things you like, etc....And then last but not least it's looks....at least make sure that you smell good and dress decent.
2006-10-22 22:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by xxsanchabonitaxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look for a guy who is really into me; the person that I am underneath. Honesty and good personal hygiene are important too. Oh, and the most important part, he must earn his own money and be financially responsible.
2006-10-22 22:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women (and men) can look for any and everything. These may be present at that point in time. But how long do/can these stay/last, that is the issue.
2006-10-22 22:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who's mentally healthy - no psycho puppies. Self-assured, independent, hardworking, compassionate and honest, respectful and inherently good. Someone w/ like values & economic background.
2006-10-22 22:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look for a guy who is intelligent, confident, and carries himself well...I want a clean cut individual who will treat me with respect and someone with whom I can have an intelligent conversation.
2006-10-22 22:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i look for a guy who will really respect me and looks really dont matter to much but alot of peircings on the face turn me off some
2006-10-22 22:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by kimgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want $$$$$$$$$$. Thats the bottom line. If they say different they are Liars
2006-10-22 22:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by Chief Slapaho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋