pple tell her that u say other girls are hot and that u say other things when u try to tell her its not true then she says she cant believe u because u have lied to her in the past, what should i do?
2006-10-22 15:24:45 · 17 answers · asked by Dick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kick her a** to the curb. Relationships are about trust and she is not about that at all......tell her to bounce!
2006-10-22 15:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by KryBaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your girlfriend really loved you, she should trust you and wouldn't listen to what others said. Are they saying things because they're jealous? Why ARE they saying these things? To really have a sound relationship, you have to have trust and communication. HAVE you lied to her in the past? If that's the case, then you need to work on building up her trust again; IF the relationship is worth it. You need to sit down and discuss all these things and if it's strong enough, you'll be able to work it out. If her friends continue on saying things that aren't true, I think she needs to find some new friends.
2006-10-22 15:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's looking for reason to break up with you. You want her to appreciate you, and stop blaming you for things that you never said. Tell her that you are letting her go because she does not trust you, and you cannot be with someone who does not trust you, because if she really wanted to be with you...she would at least try. But she just wants drama...and you are the victim.
2006-10-22 15:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem with a guy that I was with for 7 year's. He always listened to his friends over me. You have to have trust in a realationship for it to work, other wise there is not point in the realationship to continue. If she is going to listen to her friends and take their word over yours, then I would break it off. You're better off with out her. After all there are other fishes in the sea.
2006-10-22 15:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Terri P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well buddy, you have probably seriously scarred her trust with you if you have lied to her in the past.
but then again, if she continuously accuses you of such trivial things as saying another girl was hott and she breaks up with you because of it, then yall probably dont have a very strong relationship. i would talk to her about how you feel. and if that dosen't work, then i would analyze yalls relationship and see if its even worth kepeing up.
2006-10-22 15:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell her the truth. Like, in the past I did that, but I changed. I've grown up since then, and I don't act that way anymore.
2006-10-22 15:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not going to believe you, your better to let her move on. You don't need to keep having her break up with you and mess with your heart just because she listens to other people.
Find someone more mature. You deserve better.
2006-10-22 15:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amen, Koyu
2006-10-22 15:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kasey R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, if you've got one of those girls who won't EVER forget about the past, then it's time to move on.
2006-10-22 15:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by matt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a girlfriend who is more trusting and doesn't listen to other people.
2006-10-22 15:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋