I have been seeing a guy for about 2 months now and, so far, past relationships have not been discussed, I want to know; should I ask him how many women he has been with? And do I REALLY want to know or do I just have morbid curisoity?
2006-10-22 15:19:33 · 8 answers · asked by biscuit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't ask. I made the mistake of asking out of curiosity and was sorely disappointed. Just leave it be. You are his girl now and that's all that matters. Some things are better left unknown.
2006-10-22 15:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If by "how many women he has been with" you mean sexually, HELL NO. Numbers don't mean a thing anyway, what matters is he is with you now.
Personally I do like to get some idea of whether they have had serious relationships in the past - how long, how long ago, how it affected who they are today.
Like I might tell someone new, I've had 3 long term relationships that were truly significant in my life, but the many little short-term things and a few one-nighters aren't really relevant to the person I am seeing now (in this hypothetical situation as I am single LOL)
2006-10-22 15:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont ask him. He might be embarrased or he could happen to be a player. And u just have morbid curiosity.
2006-10-22 15:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, thats usualy one of those questions better left alone let the past be in the past.
2006-10-22 15:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by mfsew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave It in the past and look forward on what you guys have going on.Why bring it up it would probably bring problems later on.If you ask him he will probably ask you the same question.
2006-10-22 15:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Casper77mc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask let it unfold on its own. If you ask how many girls he has been with you might not like the answer!
2006-10-22 15:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really want to know, it will haunt you if you find out trust me on this one.
2006-10-22 15:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll tell you later... don't ask it is never good...
2006-10-22 15:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋