My daughter's father,who rarely calls me,just called and i'm confused as all hell right now because he was saying that when i move out near him again he wants to start taking me out to the club and stuff,which is a little weird to me and he asked how his daughter was and warned of me of a few things that might happen to her that happened to his other daughter when she was younger and also said that i don't have as many issues as other people and he didn't realize that until after we weren't together anymore.Long story about why we broke up but his family hasn't seen the baby yet and i spoke to his sister and she said she really missed me and wanted to see the baby and his older daughter wants to see her too and i feel so bad that things turned out this way.Anyways he said he's gonna start making more of an effort to call and talk with me and i'm confused.Does he want to be friends for the baby's sake or does he want to be a family?I don't understand...Can someone help??!!
2006-10-22 15:14:42 · 7 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My ex-husband has started doing this too. He is calling me all of a sudden, acting like my daughter and I are so important to him. I get the feeling that these guys in general are regretting the "breakup". However, they are hesitant about getting back involved b/c of past issues, never know if it will be the same and again they would be giving up their freedom of being single. So, it's all the same, he doesn't even know what he wants.
2006-10-22 15:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by precious girl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 01:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by willsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I agree with your first answerer..........I mean why now?
It sounds like you have moved on wtih your life and you need to just keep looking ahead......At the same time, if his sisters wanted so much to see the baby(with someone else with you there) then they can visit...Maybe they are just being nice to back the brother up ! Is that possible? No Matter What you decide to do,,,,,,,,,,,,,just take everything slow.........I mean don't even let him kiss you for a few visits if it goes that far.......I mean you aren't with him for a reason right now anyway....just go slow..
Friendships first...They should take months.............
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2006-10-22 15:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lets get a grip here on this situation!
You broke up with him for a reason so dont forget that! strike one
He has other children with other women! strike two!
He wants to take YOU out to the club? He should be telling you that he wants to come and take his daughter to the park. strike three!
If you have to come on here and ask all of us about what is up and he didnt flat out say to you. I want to come and see my daughter and spend quality time with her then he is screwing with your head and just wants to get laid by you!
thats it
and wouldnt that be a real fuucking joke if he got you pregnant AGAIN!!!!
oh god!
Please keep the gene pool clean!
2006-10-22 15:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I empathize with you. This sounds weird. Take it very slow and keep an eye on your child. We went through a similar episode with my great nephew when his dad showed up 4 years after his birth and started taking him home for the day on Sundays. All of a sudden his dad's girlfriend started teaching the nephew to call her "Mommy". Red flags went up and we had to counsel her to realize he had a "Mommy" and for him to call her by that title would only lead to confusing him. He is autistic.
2006-10-22 15:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by BP 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He has alternative motives that he isnt telling you. If i were you I would stay away from him.
2006-10-22 15:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by Katy 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Idk. I think he doesn't like u but, he doesn't want 2 c anything happen 2 his daughter.
2006-10-23 02:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by lakersfan_4life1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋