Ok well I like this guy. He's quite popular and I've only talked to him a few times. I'd like to ask him out but I don't know what to do because lets just say I've had really bad luck with this sort of stuff in the past.
I have no clue so please help!!
2006-10-22 15:07:20 · 15 answers · asked by shopaholicsareanonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confidence... If you don't have it... find it somewhere.
The best part is, you won't lose a leg, a kidney, or a lung over it. All he can say is "no".
You could get attacked and die on Friday by a black squirrel. Just imagine, if you never asked him out... Shame.
2006-10-22 15:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your hair done, put on a sexy outfit, and a little make up and perfume. Walk by him, make eye contact and smile. Don't say anything to him! Stand against a wall (Not too far from him, but not too close.) Look at him again, this time with a straight face, play with your hair and then look away. Pretend like you're doing something. (Play with your phone, talk to a friend, go through your purse.) At this point, if he's interested (And not lame or scared) he will approach you on his own. The worst thing you can do is make the first move for him. When he walks over, and he will, don't smile too much, don't giggle at everything he says, and don't cut him off. When he finally pauses, say 'I was supposed to hang out with my girl today, but she's busy tonight. Hey what are you doing later?' He will most likely say something lame like 'uhhh, nothing really heh'. Then you say 'Well, we're going to hang out tonight because I'm bored. Okay?' And he will say something lame like 'uhhh, sure why not.' or he will laugh nervously. Then pull out your phone and get his number. The rest you got to do on your own.
2006-10-22 22:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by Bmenace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because u had few bad past relations doesnt mean ur gonna have a bad luck for the rest of ur life!
liking someone isnt about the looks and popularity, u may like the idea of him bt not the real him...ask him out, why not but dnt get too attached untill u knw he's worth it... cause trust me when u get ur heart broken u can offically say "i have a bad luck with guys" good luck :p
2006-10-22 22:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by nanousheh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need to do is become more optimistic and try not to be hard on yourself because of past mistakes.. Also try to become a friend first and also talk to some of the people he calls friend they can be more helpful with having ways to approach him that he won't find strange or even peculiar
2006-10-22 22:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by strickly2deep 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should probably talk to him a little more and get to know him better before you ask him out. Because most hot guys have nothing under the surface. They are all full of themselves,idiots, and perverts. So yea, unless you like guys like that I would get to know him better =]
2006-10-22 22:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by lost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try so hard, you may be scaring guys away.
Tell him you want to get to know each other better.
Ask him is he would like to talk on the phone some time. Don't be too pushy, talk to him like a friend. If he wants you, he will make it clear. If he doesn't ask him.
2006-10-22 22:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by Piranha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i just helped my friend wit this same problem. get a girlfriend to ask him if he like u. some guys get weirded out if u just randomly come up and ask them out. make sure he like u first. if he doesn't, make him. flirt allot. if he does go for it but make it private or in a note. good luck
2006-10-22 22:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by Caesar Chica is Sweet : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't put yourself out there you'll never feel confident about yourself. The worst thing you can do is let the past affect you. This is a new person. Just my opinion.
2006-10-22 22:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by hosebroom1212 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to read a book from the library called Instant Rapport.
2006-10-22 22:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by shlomogon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are willing get him alone or as much as possible and start up a conversation, if you are getting the vibes, ask him if he would like to go to a movie or something. I wish you luck on it :D
2006-10-22 22:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋