I have to make a confession to my dad. I have to tell him he needs to send me 15K more for my college tuition because the 15K he sent me before...I gambled away in 2 months(cries)...I know it will hurt him and I waited to see if I could win it back but that has not been possible and I cannot wait a day more (cant gamble anymore) or I will fail in my classes...I wish I was so rich that 15k was not a big deal but it is. My 56yr old dad has to now send my stupid *** more money its so sick...I did this mistake before also and spent 10K and promised I wont do it again so I have let him down.
Please tell me how can I make this confession - Please I am distraught...I know once I graduate and get a good job...this money wont mean much but I want my father to love me and trust me...I dont wanna make any mistakes in this important conversation....yet I am confused as to how to go about it...what is your advice and suggestions!
Thanks!
2006-10-22 14:55:13 · 6 answers · asked by Shah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Dear.. you are in a very tight and strange situation here. First of all you lost the faith/trust of your dad twice by gambled away with the money he sent. First time when you lost 10K was okay he could understand but why again? Is that your habit or you trying to play tricks with your dad/ his money? Why do you think he should trust you any more??.. Who knows if he trust you again and sends you 15K more... maybe you can gamble it away too... What's the assurance...??
Dude, you need to confess to your dad and tell him the truth. Convince him that you will never ever do it again. Since its urgent for you to get this 15K.. you should try to trade off 15K with something (deposit this stuff with your dad as security) you like most. But the stuff you put it as deposit with your dad should be worth 15K so that your dad doesn't have any problem giving you 15K more. You can later get this stuff back from your dad after you get the job and repay his 15K.
Hope this suggestion might work....
GOOD LUCK!!
Earn the respect and trust of your beloved ones.
2006-10-22 15:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by just_4_frenz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clarie, Never run from anybody to anybody ..... It takes time to heal .... however you had a pleasant man have an impact on you, your emotions and also you noticed how it will have to be performed .... Do you currently understand how you desire a man to regard you .... the way you want to be revered? Then the center discomfort was once valued at it ..... you found out ..... no that you've got a sample .....a thought to be able to talk ... you'll be able to appear round you while you meet individuals to look how humans degree up ... over the years your perspectives and needs & demands would possibly difference .... however you will have private capabilities of this guy to distinction & examine to others alongside your lifestyles course .... A man or woman who is higher fitted to you (nearer in age) will come alongside ..... i pitty the idiot ... he has big sneakers to fill ..... But I guess he's going to suppose your valued at it. If your in tuition ... check out the counsilor for a referal on who to speak with, there could also be peer counsiling agencies too, the Church can aid ..... final shot get the father and mother to verify the clinical advantages .... however your first-class shot right here ... is time and assembly new individuals. Good Luck
2016-09-01 01:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by willsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see any way that you dad is going to believe you when you say you won't do it again. I don't even believe you. I know you have a huge problem that needs to be taken care of before you go back to college. also advise you college what you have done. they may not let you back in as you are gambler and a thief. You need to get help and I don;t mean from your dad. Time for you to grow up and do the responsible thing
2006-10-22 15:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a gambling problem and need help. Get a job and pay your own way through college, and tell your dad you're very sorry and ready to be a man now, and you don't expect him to give you anymore money.
p.s. if you have a gambling problem now its not going to go away when you start your career. your fooling yourself.
2006-10-22 15:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kristin C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to make a confession.... you need to stand
on your own two feet...... it's your fault, deal with it....
stand up to the plate for once.... let your father enjoy his
own money......
2006-10-23 14:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be responsible for your own mistake ... don't have your daddy fix it.. you are the one who F*#@ up so you take the heat... be and adult. ...
2006-10-22 14:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by Jim T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋