I have been dating a great guy for almost a month. It feels like I've known him forever. Do y'all think it could be true love so soon? I have always been jaded by my previous boyfriends, and I'm afraid he'll hurt me. Should I trust him, and is this true love?
2006-10-22 14:40:50 · 20 answers · asked by swimmer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only time will tell.
2006-10-22 14:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, congratulations for being wise enough to feel cautious! We all should, especially in this day and age.
Next, I will presume you are young! Don't rush things, Take Your Time, Wait Your Turn! Love will happen when it is ready!
IMHO, Communication is the greatest factor in any relationship. This and being able to trust the other person 100%. Without both of these together, there can only be problems.
Good luck with your new friend. May it be the beginning of something great.
The Ol' Sasquatch Ü
2006-10-22 15:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep saying it's true love, but you don't really give any examples in which we can judge that it is true love. Just feeling like you've known the person forever doesn't make it true love. You should give it some time. And what do you mean by "should I trust him"? Don't you already do?
2006-10-22 14:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love, if it happens, has to have a one-month point before it has a two-month, two-year, or two-decade point! Maybe it is true love. But you won't know for sure until you're dead; nobody has the luxury of viewing life in its entirety but people no longer living life.
For now, trust that it's going really well and enjoy your newfound happiness! You deserve it.
2006-10-22 14:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by lilgoat4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most of us want to feel that amazing feeling of being "in love," but we use the words too soon and/or think we're "there" too soon. You can definitely "love" being with someone after seeing them for a month or even "love" them for who you know them to be after such a short period of time, but TRUE love takes a long time to develop. You can't TRULY love someone until you TRULY love them. I'd say to go for it and have a great time and be open to love, but don't rush into things emotionally. That tends to scare guys off anyway...and you don't want to do that! Good luck! And remember to have FUN!
2006-10-22 14:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Slope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go by past relationships. From my experience, my advice is to take things slow. Relationships are, usually always great at first. I believe if it seem to good to be true, it usually is, but that's just me. I've been in too many dead end relationships and I'm currently single. Trust your gut. Good luck.
2006-10-22 14:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by tinydancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop making the new guys pay for the sins of the old ones. Relationships involve risk, so nothing ventured means nothing will be gained. Take a risk. You just might live happily ever after.
2006-10-22 14:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should trust him becuz u said u known him forever! and u also said hes a great guy so why not? it sounds like true love to me. but notice its only been a month. dont get to confident ok. but overall trust him and yes its true love!
2006-10-22 14:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont take anything for grantid ma. but yes love is love, you cant simply stop or hide the feeling.But, dont ever compare a relationship to the past ones because you'll never move forward, but nevertheless.. trust comes with time, dont just put your all into him just yet. give the relationship time to build itself and go from there. good luck!!
2006-10-22 14:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little too soon to tell. Keep dating him but do not open yourself up fully to avoid getting hurt.
2006-10-22 14:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by lonelykuroinu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it can be true and i know its scarry as hell just dont mess it up casue if you do you'll regret it later. goodluck perhaps you've finally met your match. p.s. try not to be so jaded it could hurt you in the long run not to open up
2006-10-22 14:43:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋