Flirting???

Question

I have a MAJOR crush on this guy in my class.
We have different religions. I asked a question a couple of days ago about that,and almost everyone said that I shouldnt worry about the religions for now,so Im sticking with that.
My crush has caught me staring at him many times in class,and vice versa. He looks at me every time I laugh,and smiles.
That's a good sign,right?
Im 12,and Ive never had a boyfriend before.
I get really shy around guys,and my crush gets shy in front of girls. How should I flirt with him,giving signs that I like him,but Im not desperate???
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PS: I've NEVER flirted before.

Answer 1

First sense you've never flirted before you should overcome your shyness:)
By Feeling positive about yourself, don't get frustrated and have fun!!!Remember, the real goal here is to find someone who will like you for who you are. !=)
Now with flirting yay<3
-laughing and showing that ur a cool person to hang with
(please don't overdo it lol)

-make EYE CONTACT!:)No one feels comfertabul around someone who can't even payattention to them

-Smile!!!!

-Ask him questions whenever you get the chance!!!!( ex. Hey what songs do you have on ur mp3? Is an awsome one! you find out his musical taste and u tell him about yours and you end up having a whole conversation with him and you he'll see the real you witch is soo hot 2 them) =) Or nice shirt is reallly good to because everytime he wears it he'll probley think of you and if he wears it more it means hes soo into you=)!!!!


- TOTTALY DONT:::Use negative body language such as crossing your arms, scowling, appearing overly stressed, looking downward or walking in a hurry when you don't really need to.


((tip to see if he likes you ::: they're pupils are larger))



Good luck with that guy!!!!!!!:)

Answer 2

Try happening extraordinary nights - you would be surprised the change happening a weeknight makes in a few golf equipment. Many locations are not possible to fulfill persons in on weekends cos they're filled with cliques, and also you need to have connections, however on weeknights the gang is fully extraordinary and quite often extra sociable. Look for men in companies of two, or three on the so much, and make sure there may be an same quantity on your get together and theirs (except its a crowd, which I wouldnt endorse) then dance the night time away and do soiled dancing and so forth, SO FUN! :)

Answer 3

first of all, you nedd to be a little more outgoing, but not so much that you are changing yourself. Flirting is playful talk to charm the other person, so keep that in mind. A lot of time it is teasing light-heartedly. Saying things like" oh, you got an 'f' on your paper! shame shame" with a cute smile is very effective. just make sure you don't over do it, because then you just look annoying. Also, make sure you have your parents permission before you go out with him, 'cause if you don't, things turn out pretty ugly, trust me

Answer 4

Don't try to be something you're not. Take flirting for instance. If that's not the way you are, then you shouldn't do something that is uncomfortable for you. Just be yourself. If he doesn't like you that way, then he's not the right one. If he doesn't care and like you just the way you are, then you're fine. But flirting requires a lot of eye contact, smiling, laughing, or even toughing sometimes. Just remember to use your eyes most of the time, and look shy or blush if you must.

Answer 5

12 is such a great age! Whatever you do, keep it light. If you come on too strong, it will turn him off. 1st thing, find a reason to talk to him. Ask him for help on homework, and then just talk to him. Look at him in the eyes. Flirting isn't work. It should and will come naturally, and it already has. Just by you looking at him is flirting! Good luck! andi

Answer 6

I am EXACTLY the same. There's this girl I like in my class and she's muslim, i'm christian.
She is one of the nicest people i've ever met.
I have a huge crush but we hardly see each other.
You might want to see my history for the religon thing.
Hope everything turns out good for you. and for me

Answer 7

u should just go up to him when he's alone n just tell him what you like about him n im sure he'll say he likes you n take it from there

Answer 8

Just try 2 talk 2 him...