I'm am not unattractive, stupid, fat, untalented,or otherwise socially challenged-why have I, a Junior in HS, never been kissed (or had any relationship), while my brother of 11 has had a girlfriend for 6 weeks!!!!!
2006-10-22 14:35:19 · 11 answers · asked by Leta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a senior in high school, and I have finally realized that many of the girls in my class have been over shadowed by one. This one is slightly better looking, but the others are also lovely. We guys are continuously suffering from tunnel vision, just take an initiative with a guy you like, and change the direction of his tunnel. Its not you, its us.
best of luck
2006-10-22 14:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by CJT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you haven't met someone who you connected with. If you see/know a guy you like just ask him to dinner. Girls have it so much easier than guys.
But the social part is key. Getting yourself in the right positions to meet people. I disagree that a prince charming just comes along. Today you have to be a little proactive. But it's also possible you haven't met someone who you wanted to be with.
I was 21 and my fiance was 23 when we met each other in college. It was the first relationship for each of us, despite the that both of us were very attractive (I would say almost dominating). In each of our cases we just never met anyone who we really wanted to be with.
So I wouldn't think anything of your situation. But in college the situation reverses itself. You're not going to find a better opportunity than college to meet someone special, it gets much harder in the real world.
2006-10-22 21:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by dtshaff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably very picky, which is not a bad thing. If however, you do want to bag a man, flirt some more. I can already tell by the information that you've given us that you probably just stand around and wait for the guys to come. Where as us men, such as your brother, go for the gusto. Don't be slutty....FLIRT!!!!
2006-10-22 21:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by justbeinblunt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your smart,your taking things slow and doing your school work,they will be plenty of time for bf or dating later,keep up your grades and dont worry about the small things in life.
2006-10-22 21:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by alleycat46534 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get in a hurry, enjoy life. A relationship will come your way.
2006-10-22 21:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great question.... it sounds like me only i am a sophmore in HS and my sis of 13 has had like 3 boyfriends already!
2006-10-22 21:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by maureen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mybe you are shy or something and have a certain taste in guys.and dont put yourself out their like a slut.you have time to find one you are young.
2006-10-22 21:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be in a hurry to date get your life together and relationships will happen in their own time
2006-10-22 21:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by rob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop putting yourself down!
you just need to go out & meet new guys. theres is a guy out there for you. your just not looking hard enough.
2006-10-22 21:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, your time will come
2006-10-22 21:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋