What if most of your family doesn't even care and try to push you to comment suicide? Say things like I think we would be better off if you were dead, And I think if I was your kid I would have killed you along time ago.Would they (my kids) be better off if I was dead?
2006-10-22 13:53:36 · 13 answers · asked by GMB 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If most of your family thinks, and says, that they'd be better off with you dead, then YOU'D be better off without them in your live. Why waste time with people who are going to treat you like that? Get these people out of your life. You don't deserve that nonsence.
2006-10-22 13:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Why give them what they want. You know they are wrong. Your kids need you no matter what. If you have troubles this may be telling you to put them behind you and get about your business of caring for your children. Whats past is past go do the best you can and don't worry about what others think unless you trust them. When you fall, get back up. Show them you got the stuff. If you fail press on. NO one is without struggles. It won't be easy but it will be worth it. If you quit now you fail everybody and can never change it. If you press on some day your kids will say "thanks" and won't that be precious.
2006-10-22 14:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by beek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing "whatever I want" includes seeing the world and painting pictures. I don't think there are many people who will see that as a reason to kill me. And as someone who has dealt with suicidal tendencies due to extreme depression - I have never had any desire to harm others. People who shoot up crowded areas are mentally unstable. Harming and killing other people is not the default setting for most people.
2016-05-21 23:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are talking about yourself, then you are surrounded by some nasty MFs of a family. DON'T even consider suicide. You don't need to end your life. You need to end your connection with these negative people and find yourself a new group. Take your kids and tell whoever it is saying these things to f u c k off.
2006-10-22 14:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by Bad Liberal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NEVER! Suicide is wrong. whatever the problem is, it can be worked out. Someone was probably having a bad day or is just a bad person. At the worst, if you were dangerous to your kids you could let a relative adopt them, but suicide isn't going to help anyone
2006-10-22 13:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by Julia 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no way !
I can't believe your family say such cruel things : (
not sure how old you are, but if they continue
acting that way I would suggest mentioning it
to a close relative that you trust or if that isn't
possible maybe talk with your school counsellor.
those comments are not only very hurtful, but
actually a form of verbal abuse, so your family
needs to realize how poorly they are acting toward you.
but whatever you do ...... please don't ever
consider actually committing suicide .......
it never solves anything
best of luck to you
2006-10-22 14:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know... if other people think they would be better off with you dead then either they have some problems and you shouldnt listen to them or you should take a good look at your life and the way your living it... maybe you need to change some things
2006-10-22 13:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is a shame that you are in such an abusive family, sound they really need Jesus in their lives.
perhaps you are there to show them the truth of love.
don't give up you can make a difference.
times might be hard now but they will improve.
2006-10-22 14:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah's Grandpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone hates me, why give them that satisfaction? I'm the sort that would keep on living just to annoy them. You should just get those people out of your life and keep on living!
2006-10-22 13:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They would not be better of without you for sure. Studies show that children without parents tend to grow up and lead more violent lives.
2006-10-22 13:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by pressersf 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋