I'm beginning to think I have *serious* issues. I've barely spoken to this guy, just a few conversations on a public board online, some flirting, and 1 IM conversation... but then I went back and read a bunch of of his postings on the same site, to get an idea of who he is. His writing & postings are *amazing* -- he's amazing -- and I'm already ridiculously jealous and reading his sickeningly flirty coversations with this one other girl. (It's not all girls, just this one other.) It literally makes me nauseous to see their outrageous chemistry & flirtation. And now I can't eat, can't think, can't sleep, I just keep thinking about him. If all this weren't bad enough, I'm 28 & he's 22-ish, and he lives on the other side of the country, so these are crazy thoughts anyway.
The other problem is, that other girl I see him talking to is amazing too. Smart as a whip, confident, funny. Plus she's his age.
Ugh, what the hell is wrong with me, and what should I do to deal w/this?
2006-10-22 13:32:35 · 8 answers · asked by melon_rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see, i don't want to give it up, b/c i REALLY like this guy. i'm at a point where i know what i want in a guy, and he genuinely seems awesome. to the point where i would even go meet him if he asked me to (which i can't see happening anyway... lol)
2006-10-22 13:37:26 · update #1
Yes I have and I didn't hessitate to tell her how I felt, she thought I was a kook at first,but we talked every day and after a while she began to have similar feelings for me., I'd suggest you talk as much as possible and just be honest about who you are, and how you feel. At some point exchange photos and phone numbers. Best of Luck....Let Love Rule
2006-10-24 07:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by brianlefttoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you liek him schedule a meeting. your old enough to take care of yourself and assure hes not an online predator. If he flirts with you liek he does with that other girl than you must be amazing to him like her. If it had been every girl he flirts wiht that would be a different story. But its just you and her. Take a chance meet him and then choose your fate
2006-10-22 20:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by not_another_pretty_face 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to know just how do you fall in Love on-line, without meeting the person first. Let it go. It is better to have loved and to have lost than never to have loved at all.
2006-10-22 20:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by bigslick60 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think that you should get to know him better but it really dont matter if hes flirting with other girls just tell him how you feel and see what he says but i think you should meet him in person who knows it mihgt be fun
2006-10-22 20:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i'd suggest meeting him first... in person people tend to be much different... after you do that then decide.
2006-10-22 20:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by travis R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
happened to me too...sorry I can't be more of help
2006-10-22 20:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by ksgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give it up and find someone who is closer to your age and country.
2006-10-22 20:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
yep you have to just move on
2006-10-22 20:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋