Boyfriend has given me reasons to be suspious of him so I went over to his house unanounced. He did not answer when I knocked on his door when I came left his roomates started to laugh and I heard them yell "you knew it was her????" I then left. I am his girlfriend I called he did not answer I went over because I believed him to be doing something wrong. He then asked me "how do I feel about the relationship"? What do you think my friends?
2006-10-22 13:32:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he has something to hide. Sorry. If he doesn't then why wouldn't he answer the door? I think you need to sit down with him and re-evaluate your relationship and decide if it's the healthiest place for you to be.
Best Wishes and Good Luck!!
2006-10-22 13:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think any time you have to resort to this kind of game playing there isn't any relationship to salvage. Doesn't sound like he's worth your time, and you sound like you are too insecure for a relationship right now. Work on that, and when you understand that either a person wants to be with you or they don't, and if they don't, by all means, let them go, you will always be second guessing yourself.
2006-10-22 20:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't think very much of you. You two probably won't get married if that's the case. So if you're not going to get married, that means at some point you're going to break up. So if he's being an ***, tell him to ef off and find someone else.
2006-10-22 20:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by mrmanseven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes being a loser. Mostly because of his friends. I dont know how strong your relationship is but maybe you should give him time. If he isnt answering your calls, maybe hes getting annoyed by you. Just stay back he will talk eventually
2006-10-22 20:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that was very insulting. Moreover he doesn't seem to be trustworthy. Try discussing with him. If he is not sorry about it or if he does not have a very valid reason for his behaviour, you may like to consider leaving him.
2006-10-22 20:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just be straight up to him
ask him how HE feels
you tell him the truth about how you feel and also tell the truth about feeling suspicious
2006-10-22 20:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by ~ME~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go back to his knock on his door,and if you here him talking barge right in,and tell him off.
2006-10-22 20:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK TELL HIM U GUYS HAVE OT TALK ASK HIM ABOUT WHAT YOUR SUSPICIONS ARE. IF HE HESITATES SOMETHING IS GOING ON IF HE DOESN'T HAVE TO THINK AND JUST TELLS YOU SOMETHING MIGHT BE GOING ON BUT MOST LIKELY NOT.
2006-10-22 20:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by confussed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to be suspicious. I think you deserve better.
2006-10-22 20:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by robbie347 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋