However, she already has a bf. We're both in highschool in Mass. and her bf is in college in West Virginia. Should i tell her how i feel or just continue to stay friends with her?
2006-10-22 13:25:49 · 10 answers · asked by mja289 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, for now... don't allow the friendship to be ruined. Continue being a great friend and be there for her.
Chances are, her college boyfriend will end up breaking up with her to live the college life and you'll be the shoulder she has to lean on!
Then, you can take it from there.
2006-10-22 13:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i wouldnt push my luck. There is no way to know how she might react, and you might end up ruining your friendship or otherwise creating a very awkward situation. I suggest you give it some time, see how things works out and perhaps wait to see if she develops stronger feelings for you as well.
PS. I personally dont agree with trying to break a couple up, i dont think its a very honorable thing to do, but its up to you.
2006-10-22 13:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by erature 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be friends because she is already taken. If anything happens between her and her bf though dont ask her out right away. I think you should be friendly right now but not anymore. You dont want to make her choose between you two.
2006-10-22 13:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you probably ought to just stay friends and if sometime in the near future him and her part, then you could tell her how you feel. Who knows, she may feel the same way and make the first move. You know us girls are so unpredictable! Good luck!
2006-10-22 13:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by ddy'sgrl77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how much you like her and how things are with her boyfriend. Maybe if they are having a rough spot offer her help and then confess. chances are she likes you too because girls usually fall for friends. Telling her would be the best.. If she doesnt liek you back wait. Maybe she willl one day
2006-10-22 13:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by not_another_pretty_face 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honsestly, I think that you should tell her in a subtle way. Maybe in a poem, or make up a hypothetical situation. See if that happens she may get the hint if you make a situation up but just try it, it may work.
Best of Luck.
2006-10-22 13:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. If she shows interest in u, then go for it. But if she is trul commited to her boyfriend, then u should just stay friends unless u want to get your heart crushed. If she is commited don't be depressed, theirs other fish in the sea.
2006-10-22 13:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay friends with her until they break up then she has a friend to lean on and maybe develop a realationship with. but don't get your hopes up on either.
2006-10-22 13:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by slim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stand by..wait for your turn..it will come I tell you!it happened to me before..now my girlfriend is my crush when I was in your situuation..
2006-10-22 13:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by bestkeptsecret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay friends. u might mess up your friendship with her
2006-10-22 13:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by Happy Frappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋