What are the signs ?
2006-10-22 13:05:52 · 10 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Suspicious things happen that they can't explain (coming home late, not being available by phone, etc), and if you ask them about it they act guilty and/or defensive, and often get angry and try to make YOU look unreasonable. Those are pretty good signs.
2006-10-22 13:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inconsistencies!!!!
saying things that don't make sense
changing plans more than before
doing things they didn't do before (giving flowers when they didn't before)
putting on cologne before they leave
taking a shower when they get back
accusing you of cheating on them (big clue)
don't want to say where they're going or what they're doing
eyes looking to the right (from their position) (left=thinking, trying to remember, right=trying to think of what to say)
blinking a lot
stuttering
forgetting what they said, then changing what they said
....I could go on, but that's just on the top of my head.
And I know many liars that look you in eye when they're lying and won't look at you when they're not, so you can't go by the "they won't look at you in the eyes if they're lying" bit.
Trust your gut, but don't let your issues get in the way of what your gut is telling you, otherwise you might get a misreading.
2006-10-22 20:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts. sometimes there are no signs. but sometimes they become distant, they show interest in things they weren't interested in before, they wear cologne in times they usually wouldn't, they pay more attention to their appearance, they seem to want to hang out more than normal, they make excuses (lame ones) for not calling or forgetting to do something...THEY CAN NOT LOOK YOU STRAIGHT IN THE EYE AND TELL YOU THEY ARE NOT CHEATING unless they are a excellent liar
2006-10-22 20:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Droopi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their will be signs, weird things will happen that the other person will not be able to explain, like not showing up on time,repeatedly.Lies, akwardness, changes the subject every time you try to talk about the specific subject.
2006-10-22 20:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by laChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Habits and patterns change. If you live with the person, they don't come home in a timely manner, they makes excuses for working late, or going to visit a friend. They always change clothes if they go to the store . . .
2006-10-22 20:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of the signs to tell weather your boy friend is cheating on you is by seeing if he will talk to you, if some of your friends see him hugging on another girl, or if you walk past him and he is flirting with another girl on his or her locker if you are in middle, or in high school.
2006-10-22 20:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by daddygirl091894 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
protective of cell phone and computer. unexplainable or unbelievable schedules of time, (periods of time disappearing) not always being ready for s%* lots of showers, unreachable at times (cell calls, business calls) and the feeling that they are unwilling to give 100% of their heart to you
good luck
2006-10-22 20:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are sexually active it is easy. His movements are the tell tell signs.
2006-10-22 20:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by Big Daddy of the RGV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has a man or womens scent on them(depending on sex of the cheater) Goes out and dosen't tell you where they whent.
2006-10-22 20:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know its happening maybe too u OK and i think its easy like lie too much and be jealous too u.bye
2006-10-22 20:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by ali zahedi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋