I'm having serious dating issues.I recently met this guy,we have some serious AMAZING time together.Everytime we go out we can't keep our hands away from each other!We enjoy each other's company,he introduced his friends and his family to me within one week!It's so hard for me to find someone I am attracted to AND have a good time with,but it's him!I work at a bar,so I meet men every night.I really like him! He works as a restaurant manager and I am SO INSECURED.I feel like he meets girls all the time..He came up to me in the restaurant he works in, I feel like if he can come up to me,he can go up to anyone he feels like!I like him a lot, but recently, I've been texting him a little too much during his work hours and we had a "chat"..He thinks I am too clingy and I must admit,I am.But I truly like this guy and I believe he likes me a lot too.But after that "chat" we said give it a few days.Think he will call?And when he does,how can I change to keep him?I need help!I really like him!
2006-10-22 13:04:33 · 9 answers · asked by Gina C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well...the guy sounds like a cool guy...but maybe you just need to slow down and take things easy for a bit...last thing you want to do is scare him away. have faith in yourself and in your own beauty and stop feeling that he can have anyone he wants.
I'm sure you're just a amazing as he is and you need to realize that. the perception he may be getting from your constant texting is that of insecurity. you don't need that
2006-10-22 14:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by bald_guy69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay low for a week or two, and when and if you two hook up again take it slow. You have plenty of time to get to know each other. If its hard for you to stop being so clingy then find some other things to occupy your time. It takes 21 days to learn a knew habit. Try it and see what happens. This may be a part of you that needs to be channeled to other parts of your personality, which is not to say is a bad thing. maybe just some fine tuning. Good luck
2006-10-22 13:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either it is meant to be or it is not. If he has already indicated to you that you are coming across as "too clingy," then be warned! You need to step back and reassess the situation. I am sure that he is a great guy. You just need to prove to him that you are a great gal, and that you will fulfill him with something that he cannot receive from any of the many other women he could snare. Good luck!
2006-10-22 13:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the the time us guys are not really sure of what we want. Let him know how you feel and give him some time to think about it. Leave the ball in his court. Don't find love let it find you and when it does it will be all the more special. The hard part is being patient.
2006-10-22 13:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by losman762003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's telling you want he wants, give it a rest with the constant texting. Get out and do some things with friends that boost your confidence, things you've always wanted to do.
2006-10-22 13:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Omni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being clingy--it is an excellent way to chase him away...Take things nice and slow--if he likes you, he WILL stay with you. Trust him.
2006-10-22 13:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a guy, clingy = desperate. You blew it. Maybe you're just not ready to trust again.
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2006-10-22 13:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by lushy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's using you, that's why the excuse,
2006-10-22 13:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by Rude dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋