I dont understand why guys have a dislike against bigger girls...just because they have more to them? lol. it makes no sense to me...guys trest big girls like there dirty and not good enough...why is that?
And guys....why dont you like bigger girls? Like what is it that makes you not talk to us like you do skinnier girls?
2006-10-22 12:50:20 · 14 answers · asked by ladii_soulja007 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
Girl, I would not trip off why guys don't like big girls. They don't like big girls because their is always more to them that meets the eye and they don't want to talk to you because they are trying have sex with you. There are some men out there that like big woman but the thing is there is not enough big women loving themselves.
Girl like I said I am a thick woman and I wouldn't trade nothing to be one of these skinny woman walking around here. I don't know who told woman that having skin and bones is in. See I like to be warm in the winter and I can be my own shade in the summer, if I don't have a boo to do that. I am not what you call fat but I love myself and I love who I am. You have to love the skin you are in and don't ask why men dont won't big woman they can't handle them. Everything on us is big including are attitudes and it better be. If you don't know your own self worth even if a man came to you and told you how beautiful you were you would not believe it. So make sure you are not asking the wrong question. Everyone is beautiful no matter how ugly others may think that they are because God made them and everything he made was good.
2006-10-22 13:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Loveisthekey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't have a problem with big girls. The only thing that I could think of a guy not liking a bigger girl, is that they might jus be intimidated by the fact that they're bigger than them. I've never seen a big guy have a problem with a big girl, because well, hes bigger.
I got no problem with big girls, and judging a girl without knowing her personality some bullsh*t. Them guys need stop being like that. It's just f*cked up.
2006-10-22 12:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by ~daweed~ 3 · 11⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but some guys talk down to fat girls because they are ashamed to let you know they like you and again there is just assholes out there different people have different opinions about people like me i was married to this skinny guy once and we got divorced and i said I'll never do that again my hubby now weighs 260 and is 6 ft 1 and i couldn't be happier i even told him if he loses weight I'm getting a divorce i can't stand little men ugh.hope this helps you in some way there is guys out there who like bigger girl's
2006-10-22 12:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by Josie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because of society today it is unexceptable to be seen with anything less then a supermodel on your arm. As for me I want more then looks cause they are a dime a dozen. I like big and small girls. If only we could get past the looks and strait to the heart there would not be a problem.
2006-10-22 12:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by losman762003 1 · 8⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to be a bad boy tell u the truth i love nice guys better then i like bad boys my boyfriend is a nice guy and i love him for the way he is dont change just because the girls dont like you one day you will find someone and they will find you and you guys will fall in love well have a good day
2016-05-21 23:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello ladii...... if all that a guy is looking at is what a person "looks like" then my guess is that they are very shallow people and only get with the "skinny girls" so they can do a bit of showing off IE.. treating the girls more like an "accessory" look at me and my girl... their is more to a person than their size... my brother is a skinny bloke and his wife is a large Lady, she is one of the most kind hearted people that i know and my brother has been with her for over 15yrs... beautie is in the eye's of the beholder...... be true to yourself and know that you are better than the looks that you might get..
2006-10-22 13:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
being a "fat" girl as you would call it certainly is not the biggest blessing in my life, however it isn't my downfall either. i am confident and love myself, though there is always room for improvement i am secure in knowing and loving who i am inspite of things that would make other people consider me "less" desirable. and if a guy doesn't pay attention to because of that physical "flaw" then it is his loss anyways.
2006-10-22 13:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by kelly_25690 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because guys are mean that way trust me that's just the way some guys are but not all I know exactly what your talking about I"ve asked myself that Q my entire life
2006-10-22 12:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by mdancer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like them just fine actually.
2006-10-22 12:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
to tell the truth most of the really large girls that are my age have an attitude problem. they are not personalities I want to be around.
also some big girls think they can wear tight clothing.
unless you are athletic tight clothes don't look good on most people. the larger you are the looser your clothes should be. it depends on your height and and weight basically.
also large people in general especially guys (the girls probably mask it with perfume) smell. it's because of their size that they can't clean themselves properly. too many folds. more sweat.
and for me I look at a girls face. a pudgy face just isn't attracvtive
also the same with make up. make up is supposed to accent or highlight the natural beauty. most people use make up to hide their natural beauty. make up should be light. it shouldn't cover the whole face. most big girls I've seen like to wear a lot of make up it is not attractive. also Fat = Bad genes. I don't want my future kids being fat I want them to be healthy.
2006-10-22 13:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by Kuraimizu 3 · 1⤊ 10⤋