I had a girlfriend and she was great but I am only 12. I dumped her because my mom told me I had to. Now she is spreading rumors. Was I right to dump her and what should I do?
2006-10-22 12:47:57 · 21 answers · asked by 54jknb5487dfg46 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 12 too. if your mom said so you HAVE to obey her. ask her when youre allowed to start dating ( for me its 18 T-T)
ANYway!! You need to explain to your gf WHY you cant be with ehr anymore. and that you still wanna be good friends. and if she ever really cared for you she would wait. and NOT spread rumors about her.
BE POLITE AND CONFRONT HER
2006-10-22 12:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your were screwed as soon as you told your mom. But I think you did the right thing. Her spreading rumors only means that she didn't really care about you.
2006-10-22 19:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by krazy_deviltry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isnt love grand ? well you have to listen to your mom . no one likes getting dumped so im sure shes mad about it . and spreading rumors is what little girls do best , you have to ignore it and it will stop . oh btw it only gets worse from here
2006-10-22 19:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by treefrog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spreading rumors? Yeah, I am going to side with your mom here, it sounds like your girl had a side of vindictive b**** in her that you couldn't see while going out. Try to take another look at her and see if you can see what your mother saw in her.
2006-10-22 19:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom was right. Your too young to do the whole boyfriend girlfriend thing. Just wait until your 15 or 16 and you'll be girl crazy. Your mom will let you then. Then, maybe you can be her boyfriend agian.
2006-10-22 19:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no if the only reason you dumped her is because your mommy told you to then you are so wrong. if she is like 16 or 18 yrs old then yeah or if she is younger than you by a bite then yes you should have dumpped her. if you are around the same age then no you are just a mommy's boy
2006-10-22 19:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you were not wrong cause you were listening to your mother but i think your mom had a good reason cause look at what shes doing now just ignore the rumors and move on
2006-10-22 19:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Cutie-Pie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. First of all, why'd you tell your mom about her? I really DON'T think you we're right to dump her, though I guess mother knows best. Try talking to her and being honest and saying you didn't want to break up with her (you didn't actually want to, RIGHT??!) and that maybe you can be friends.
2006-10-22 19:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by lex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore the rumors and listen to your mom.
2006-10-22 19:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by firefly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how you feel, i don't think it's right to dump someone just because you had to. and i don't think 12 is too young to be dating so....no u shouldn't have.
2006-10-22 19:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Freckles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋