I've been dating a wonderful guy now for about ten months and he moved to another state about a month ago. We've been keeping it going by talking on the phone and internet. But even before he moved he would bring up what we should name our kids and things like that that may happen in the future. And while on the phone he brings up things about us being together for ever. Does this mean he may be seriously thnking about getting married? It's just hard to tell cuz some guys will say anything to get in your pants. I really hope that he does mean it, I really love him.
2006-10-22 12:44:41 · 8 answers · asked by Meagan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're waiting until I'm done with school before we make any decisions to move around. He's paying for me to go visit him over breaks and he has mentiones that I could move there or we can find somewhere in the middle.
2006-10-22 12:52:34 · update #1
the same is with me and my fiancee we dated for 8 months and about 2 months before i proposed to her i really knew that she was the one i wanted to spend the rest of my life but she thought i just wanted to get laid, and that wasn't the case, i suggest that you and your boyfriend actually talk about it together ask him if he just wants some but trust me if he is in another state he could have already got some the big question is why does he still talk to you answer he loves you deeply
2006-10-22 12:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by kennybigmoney 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Has he made any comments about you moving to the state that he just moved to? Have you talked about HOW to get together in the future because most long distance relationships don't last?
It sounds like you've talked kids, but have missed a lot that needs to be communicated about what happens between now and the kids.
2006-10-22 19:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by LiveLifeBeGood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat as you are. My boyfriend and I have been together almost 4 months and he lives about 600-700 miles from me. I know I love him by the fact I think about him all the time. I know he loves me right back by the way he talks. Ask him how much he loves you on the phone. Usually one knows it by the tone of voice.
2006-10-22 19:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now it seem like you are okay. Just focus on the future of the relationship too.
If he didn't want you he would not continue calling you especially now that he has moved away.
Take him for his word until you have proof of something different.
2006-10-22 19:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to have sex with you he would have tried long ago and no man keeps a realationship alive like this for ten mounths if he just wanted to have sex.
2006-10-22 19:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by slim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't count on him REALLY meaning it. He probably has thought about that stuff with you but has he thought about it SERIOUSLY with you - hard to say. Probably not tho. Sorry honey.
2006-10-22 19:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anna F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he wanted in your pants it could have happened already, and yes marrige fab
2006-10-22 19:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by nikk d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm pretty sure he means it, so just got with it. :-)
2006-10-22 19:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by Freckles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋