Do women mind being approached in public places by complete strangers who proceed to complement them?

Question

I have occasionally pondered what would happen if I stopped a woman in the street to introduce myself and maybe ask if she would consider meeting some place because I felt I just had to know a little more about such a beautiful person in case the opportunity of a lifetime was missed .

Answer 1

I suppose that depends on if said person was already in a relationship...and how cute you are...

:-)

And if you don't give off a stalker vibe...

Answer 2

Yes they do.Women are not necessarily into the type of guys we find in clubs and bars, but there are no other places where guys really find the guts to come up to women =) I think the thing where the person said the thing about saying the girl dropped something is a fun way to approach them, however, it might not work with any kind of women. I suggest you talk to her about stuff related to where you are - for example, if you're in a bookstore, ask if she read this or that etc. Then, if she's interesting, well there are no other way to ask than simply.. to ask. You can tell it the way it is - I found it interesting to talk with you ... do you mind if I give you/take your phone number ? Good luck !

Answer 3

Well, it works in the movies!

I guess it depends on your approach and the woman in question. You would probably get different reactions from different ladies.

Some women have had bad experiences with men and would find it a bit confronting or creepy, whereas others may think it's very romantic and take a chance on you.

Answer 4

Personally, I would love the compliment. It would be a little unexpected. If you are going to ask her somewhere, make sure it's a public place, and best not to be too intimate. A coffeehouse is a safe bet. As others have said, just be polite and respectful about it. Also, the worst that could happen is she says no, right?

Answer 5

Well Chris, I hope to meet you on the street one day. To show such an interest in someone, may be pushing the limit for most people. But I often see people that I would like to compliment, but don't for fear of embarrassing them and myself. I just smile and look directly into their eyes. If they hesitate, then maybe they are open to saying hello. Do you know what I mean? If you're sincere, go it. Don't miss that once in a lifetime chance meeting. It could just change your life.

Answer 6

I think most women would be fine about being complemented but to consider meeting some place? Tat makes people suspicious about what you are up to..

however, it of cos greatly depends on:
- whether you look decent
- the way you say it
- the tone you use
- and who you say it to ;)

Good luck.. I would probably find some excuse to get to know her better before I date her.. higher chance of success :)

Answer 7

Depends how well you do it. If you look like you are trying to pick them up, it will go down in flames. If you give them a legitimate kind comment, that should be taken in the spirit it is intended.

If you ask them to have a cup of coffee, there's no harm done, but you have to be kind and genuine.

Answer 8

That happened to me once. I met my ex-boyfriend that way. We were at the laundry mat. I saw him there and didn't think to much of him anyway. I was done my laundry and headed to my car. And that's when he approached me. He just came up to me, very calm, asked me if I was seeing someone. I thought that he might have thought I was someone else. I said that I wasn't. Then asked me if I wanted to go out sometime. So, anyway it's worth a try.

Answer 9

In a situation like that, I might feel a little odd, yes. Perhaps try a little "non-verbal" flirting first.

Look at her and flash a smile. If she gives you a big grin and stays put, then try it. If she gives a half-smile and then moves away quickly, don't go any further.

Whatever happens, don't compliment them over and over and over. It comes across as a cheesy "you look good, I want to get laid" pick-up line.

Answer 10

well, it's great you want to kindly meet new people, but with such a wicked world it's become, it may freak some women out. but if your determined to meet them i would say to stop them and ask what's the best resturant around or where a certain place is. that should spark a converstation with out it going out of control.