Sometimes when I’m having sex with my fiancée I suddenly can’t really feel anything down there. I mean I know he’s in there, but the feeling isn’t like it once was when we first started. That was like a year ago. This doesn’t occur all of the time, just mainly when he’s on top. I think it may have something to do with me because I produce a lot of lubrication when I’m sexually aroused so I’m thinking maybe I’m too wet and it has something to do with the friction down there…let me know why this is happening please! Thanks
2006-10-22 12:30:48 · 14 answers · asked by dangerously in love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is nothing wrong with you, it happens to alot of women, there is nothing you or he is doing wrong! if it only happens when he is on top then I suggest that you not do as much foreplay, and start out with him on top, or you could use some shrink cream. it will tighten the muscles inside and you will feel everything!!! once you start to get really aroused, swap positions, him behind or you on top. I hope this helps.
2006-10-22 12:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by Andie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not an expert but, I too have had that problem when too aroused. I wish Icould help you on this. I don't know the explination for this all I can suggest is when you are too lubricated try a different position it may help. It seems to help me so try it out.
2006-10-22 12:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I may not be much help for this kind of subject but I read one time that you can let him do a little something extra like rubbing your arousal zones...but if that don't work, I dont know what to tell you
2006-10-22 12:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two go at it for a long time, say thrusting for more than 45 minutes in the same position, it can simply get numb down there.
Try changing positions, see if that helps.
2006-10-22 12:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try doing Kegel exercises. It increases your sexual pleassure and his. I have had three kids, but I can have sex with a guy with a penis the size if my middle finger and still feel it because I practice them very faithfully. You will notice he gets more pleasure, and your orgasms will be earth shattering!!
2006-10-22 12:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right!
The key is to change positions frequently during intercourse to get max pressure.
With your "wetness issue", bring a hand towel or rag to bed and pat your p*ssy!
2006-10-22 12:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by missionman1914 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing as "too wet." Enjoying yourself isn't a problem. If you do want to have more sensation, change positions! On top, from behind or a personal fave, on your side, one leg bent one straight with him in between your legs (as if he was behind you, between your legs and you were to lay and turn to one side.)
2006-10-22 12:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by misskate12001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope..
Don't think it is too much lubricant...
Perhaps a size difference problem ?
Just use whatever position gives the most pleasure...
2006-10-22 12:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know exactly what going on. I think from your explanation that you get too excited and too moist. My suggestion would be to not have as much foreplay and maybe sometimes just go at it.
2006-10-22 12:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are correct , also he probably has a small penis and as you get wet and relax you lose the sensation...I suggest you trade up for a bigger model xx
2006-10-22 12:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋