I had a girl in the club who was in a big group of women stay for me after they left and we talked 5 minutes (her friends had gone), i asked for her number and she's like "text me, okay?" So im like how do i play that. Did she mean text her that night when the club closes, or should i text her a few days from now, or should i even call her?
2006-10-22 12:11:59 · 34 answers · asked by lucas m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
call her tell her to meet u sumwhere only if u know her al least a bit
2006-10-22 12:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she gave u her number and she sad to text her, then she maybe liked u. But sometimes girls just give they numbers but they don't mean it, they just do it or they give a wrong number. So I think u should still text her or just call her and try to maybe ask her out on the date. If she doesn't pick up or it's a wrong number, don't worry so much u only talk to her for 5 minutes. If she does pick up then ask her to hang out and then maybe u will see if she likes u or not. But don't waist your time or hers if u don't really like this girl. Good luck to u with everything!!!
2006-10-22 12:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by Martini5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you called her, what would you say? Texting is at least one liners and gives you time to think about your response. Or... she has a boyfriend and doesn't want to get caught if you call. But text messaging she can get away with. Sorry, but you met this girl at a club, you never know! Call her/text her only if you see there being a purpose.
2006-10-22 12:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text her the next day and ask her how she is and did she enjoy her night kind of thing. If she texts back then ask does she want to go for a drink or a meal or a coffee or whatever you're into. Good luck.
2006-10-22 12:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by Alana B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT wait 3 days, every girl knows that thats the standard time a guy waits to show that hes interested but playing it casual. If you do you just look like a c*ck. Send her a text around lunch time the next day, just saying hi that your going to be busy all day but will ring her tomorrow. Shows that you like her but also buys you time to decide where your going to meet/take her.
2006-10-22 16:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text the girl ASAP, if she wanted a call she would have said so and if she wanted you to do it on a specific day or time she would have told you so! Just text her now and get it over with.
2006-10-22 12:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by snowedbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look mate, its very simple, if you like the girl its best to get in touch by phone about a week after you've got her number and never show a woman that your overly keen or it might scare her off. Just say something like, hi, how are you, do you remember talking to me last week......etc let the conversation roll and arrange to meet up at some point!
GoodLuck!
2006-10-22 13:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by filmstu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman who's given guys her number, I'd say text her back ASAP - something short and sweet like "it was nice to meet you, Sally" or tie it back to that short conversation you had with her. I think it's safe to call her as well. Either way, do it sooner rather than later. Girls hate waiting!
2006-10-22 12:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by Slinty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should have texted within 24 hours
2006-10-23 00:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by John H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait...there's no hurry, i'd give it about 4 or 5 days then text her. just say hey we met in the club the other night what did you think of my dance moves, something like that to amuse her. play it cool
2006-10-22 12:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead call her. If the number is not phony, that might be a good thing. Just remember you might get a girl this is only club worthy and no substance.
2006-10-22 12:15:24 · answer #11 · answered by Donna P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋