ahh help me people. im clueless?

Question

okay so heress the deall. i reelieee like this guy. and i THINk he likess me back. but im not sure. he likeee makes funn of me. but like in a sweet waii. yesterdaii he made me chase him around mi wholeee backyardd for something taht he took from me. hes alwaiz like. paulina save mi spott. and thenn when he comess backk. hes like thnxx *smiles*
does hee like me ?

thnxx peeople. i appreciate it. but he just told me who he likes. and he kindaa said it in a laughy-way. is he trying to make me jelous?

Answer 1

He does like you.
He is trying to show it in the best way that he can.

Females mature faster than males do. Males use competitive behavior with their friends, which is where the "nice" way he is making fun of you comes from.

One of the biggest fears of young men is that of rejection. He may be too shy to ask you out for a date, or too afraid that you will say no. He may also be too immature to know that he wants to date you.

The best thing to do is to ask him to study with you, or to do some private activity with just the two of you. I don't know your age so I can't give you a good suggestion of exactly what to do. When you get him alone then you can ask him out on a date. If at any stage he says ‘no’ then you know he isn't interested in you in that way yet.

If he does say ‘yes’ then you need to control the situation and how far it escalates. When a male becomes a teenager and on to an adult they are thinking about sex 52% of the time (from an episode of 20/20 on ABC aired on Sept. 30, 2006). So he will want to go as far as you are willing to let the relationship go. You are probably too young to start thinking about sex yet, but he will soon start thinking about it. Of course a good kiss could be enough to satisfy him for a while. Giving you time to do what is most important to you and that is to develop the relationship.

Another bit of advice: A girl's first date, first kiss, and the first time they have sex are supposed to be "magical." It isn't the same with men. They want to do these things, but to a male it is more like accomplishing a goal than a magical event. Therefore if you want a "magical" moment then set it up yourself. Your boyfriend will want to cooperate and please you, but he doesn't understand how important of a milestone this is to you.

Men and Women think very differently from each other, they have different instincts and different goals because their bodies are different and the survival instinct is different. For a woman the best way to survive and reproduce is to have a lot of good relationships, especially with the husband, so she can raise her child and have the support she needs. For a male the best way to survive and reproduce is to have quick sex with as many women as possible.

Both sexes are able to rise above their instincts, but in their default mode they follow their instincts. Often they follow their instincts because they don't realize where they are coming from and how they are coloring their thoughts.

For more information on the differences between men and women and how it affects their thinking see my answer for this question: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;... (answer #8).
I have had several responses that consider my answer to be a very thoughtful and insightful one. Why don’t you read it and tell me, you can contact me via my avatar.

Answer 2

Of course he likes u. But dont ask him out. wait for him to ask u out or take the firstmove.
Just show ur interests as much as u can, and eventually he will ask u out.

Answer 3

I think he does he might ask you out u just gotta be patient :)and show that u like him because he might be confused right now too thinking if u like him or not!

Answer 4

You should ask him out on a date -- if he declines, then he probably just likes you as a friend.

Answer 5

From what you have just told me I believe that he likes you the same way that you like him so why don't you go for it.

Answer 6

Probably, but just quit wasting time and ASK.

Answer 7

hm...
he probably does like you
.

but

I would not like a woman that did those things...
.

if you ask him out on a date and he declines
you can move on
can't you?
.
.

Answer 8

I think he got the hots for you.

Answer 9

sounds like he does :)

Answer 10

he probably does