I'm a freshman in highschool, and theres a homecoming party that runs from 9 pm-3 am. its at a club. she wont let me go, but psht, i'm in highschool! and this is a highschool party! and my crush is going to be there! is it really fair for her to keep me at home? what should i do?
2006-10-22 11:55:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you are too young to go to a club. and too young to stay out until 3 a.m. if you do that now, what will you have to look forward to in the future. clubs are nothing to look forward to, but at least save something for when you are older.
2006-10-22 12:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by black mamba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's too bad. I know you would have a good time. However, I think I will side with your mom. So who's going, who's chaperoning? Is it possible to go for awhile, maybe say until midnight? Can you compromise? Here's my gut reaction, your mom doesn't know what kind of club this is, or who runs it, or who's going to be there, or .... See there are alot of questions here and I don't get a good feeling about letting you out into this world with all the darn weirdo's and sex fends, and god knows what else that prey on young girls like you. I'm sorry, but part of your mom's responsibility is to protect your from the crap that goes on in the big bad world. Being in high school, doesn't necessarily qualify you to be out there at that time of night. You need to earn that right. Sorry
2006-10-22 19:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is you mother. I know you don't understand now but you will in about 6 years. A party that lasts til 3 a.m. is no place for a freshman or any kid in high school. You're mother is doing what she thinks is best. Remember, no matter how old you are, life is not always fair.
2006-10-22 19:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ehh, you're in high school yes, but you're a baby in high school, and it's probably a little hard, maybe a little scary, for your mother to let you go to some party till 3am. Maybe you can ask her if she can be the one to drive you there, and be the one to pick you up. She may be more comfortable with you going knowing that she'll be able to see where it is, what it's like, and that she's the one in control of getting you home safely. Maybe even compromise and ask if you can stay till 1. You're only missing 2 hours, and you'll still have a lot of fun.
2006-10-22 19:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am a mom and I am not sure why she wont let you go, i think you should be able to go. I have 8 kids and 4 are over Freshman age. if it is a school thing, have her drop you off and pick you up at the party.,
2006-10-22 18:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ask her if she can chapoerone you to the place and pick up up about 12midnight instead of staying the whole time. I mean 3am is kinda late and she is only looking out for you, you are her little girl. I mean maybe she might say yes and dont wear anything that will make her REALLY say no. try but not too soon.
2006-10-22 19:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by prettyfalcon197 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,,,,if your mother doesn't want you to go then you should respect her wishes...
Also you are too young to be going to a club and party 'til 3 AM
Too much trouble for you to get into...I have to side with your mother on this one.
2006-10-22 18:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im a freshman too, i dont think u should go to a party like that
call me anything u want but im right, you could get hurt or somethin bad might happen there
2006-10-25 20:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by Zulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just worried about u. it's not u that she doesn't trust. it's everybody else. try to let her know that it's gonna be safe and that all of ur friends are going so nothing bad will happen. my mom would never let me go to a party till 3 am...so i'm not sure how to convince her.
2006-10-22 19:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by Carmen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well your only a freshman but that never stopped me when i was a freshman i would either go to my friends house that night or go with my older bro or sit and cry at home. good luck have fun and dont do anything you wouldnt usually do k. have fun
2006-10-22 19:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋