my little siter is 14 years old and she tells me everything, well from what i know, and yesterday she asked me if it was to early to have sex? what should i tell her. im afraid that what ever i tell her she may not like and go and to it anyways. what is the best way to have sex without getting pregnate at the age 14
2006-10-22 11:46:36 · 13 answers · asked by keep'n' it real 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
not having sex at all is the best. i looked up to my sister and if she said it was cool to not have sex i wouldn't of done it. she will soak up what u say like a sponge so spend more time with her to discourage her from sex. tell her how proud u are that she is waiting and that u waited too (even if it's false)
2006-10-22 11:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by confused mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is no sex at all, birth control is always a good choice whether it be a condom, the pill, the shot, the ring........and honestly 14 is to young for sex you are still a baby and no man or should i say boy is that important for you to give something that special to, you should wait till you are older, alot older, cause sex at this age will just hurt you not help you
2006-10-22 11:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best at 14 is to not do it at all and tell her if the situation arrises ONLY with condoms and birth control. i was 15 and it was pounded into my head to always use condoms and guess what - i did. so make sure you are informative shell listen. just dont condone it. Try to scare the crap out of her as much as you can. Show her what diseases she can get and tell her that if you cannot handle an unexpected pregnancy and the consequences that come with it you should not be having sex because the chance is always there.
2006-10-22 11:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♥mama♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should advise her that she is too young to be having sex. But if she's gonna have sex anyway then she needs to use a condom to prevent sexually transmitted diseases. She cant get pregnant giving somebody a bl(o)w job or by taking it up the (a)rse but lubrication like KY Jelly will be required otherwise it will hurt. Don't use Vaseline as it is oil-based and will stop the condom being effective
2006-10-22 11:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by MGN2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No 14 year old should be having sex. Tell your parents and they will keep tabs on her. Don't let her be your problem
2006-10-22 11:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by thecrazyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abstinence but if she going to have sex at such a young age tell er to use protection.
2006-10-22 16:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by mocha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to have sex. haveing sex weather your on the pill or use a condom or not... is asking to get pregnet, ask her if shes comfortable with ruining her high school years with having to take care of her child or worse - killing a child and growing up to regret it.
2006-10-22 11:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by TJ815 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Abstenance. No sex at all. if you must use a condem and get on birth control.
2006-10-22 11:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kenya W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where's y'alls mother? you two should be talking to her about these issues. if she is unavailable, find another trusted adult to talk to. sound like neither of you should be having anything to do with sex. save sex for marriage.
2006-10-22 13:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none at all shes 2 young
2006-10-22 12:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋