i know, i know. im a coward.
but i have had crush on this girl at uni for a year now. I know her well enough to chat to in passing but i'd really like to get to know her.
I recently found out we share a mutual friend, and through him i got her number. but...
If I was to text her now I might seem a bit creepy and werid, right?
something along the lines of "hi ___ its ___, i asked ___ for youyr number, i hope thats ok. i was wondering if you fancy a drink one night next week?"
2006-10-22 11:21:32 · 20 answers · asked by chrisfass_uk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah , why not, i wouldnt mind if i were her
2006-10-22 11:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id personally be flattered if a guy did that - I wouldnt mention the drink in your first text though - just text her saying hi this is X - I got your number off X - I hope you dont mind?
Judging on her reply - if shes all hey hows it going kinda text back you know she doesnt mind and just send one or two more chitchat texts like what youup to kinda stuff - and then send one saying - look instead of texting are you around some night to meet up for a drink?
Best of luck! xx
2006-10-23 04:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u know her well enough to talk to then i think it wouldnt be wierd to text her..imo...u should text her saying "hiya its ____ ,have u heard about ____ (a party, somethin happenin, etc), me and some mates from my uni block r goin and wondered if u n some mates wanted to come? btw, i got ur number off ____, hope u dont mind"
Basically, dont make it a big deal that ur texting her, be really casual.- but playfully flirty so she knows ur interested. If i read that text then i'd think u were bein a nice bloke but that u were hinting that u were interested in me(cos u texted in the first place).
2006-10-22 18:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by **shell** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she mite be flattered that you went to the trouble of doing that, i'd recommend sending just the one txt, you dont want to seem like a stalker or anything. apolgise in the txt for not having asked her directly for her number and that you hope she isnt freaked out by it. if shes a nice girl she shouldnt have a problem with it. good luck
2006-10-22 18:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....just text her if u want 2 if u really like her and just ask 'wud u fancy a drink one night next week?'......If she asks how u got her number then tell her otherwise u don't haVe to tell her where u got her number from . Good Luck!
2006-10-22 18:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go one give it a go, why not, or wait untill you bump into her then text her, 'nice to see you, fancy a drink?' You never know unless you ask. Good Luck x
2006-10-22 18:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lulu T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her- dont text her. Becausee you are never sure if she gets it.
Just call her and tell the truth. You are interested in getting to know her and got her number thru so and so. She will be flattered.
2006-10-22 18:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it might seem a little creepy to some.
If you get on well, if your casual about it, she'd proberly be okay. If it's like she ends any conversation with you quickly, then she might find it creepy.
2006-10-22 18:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Eden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id text her say hey its ____ wsup?
dont explain how u got her # unless she asks cuz then it sounds like u have sumthing so hide and dont immediately ask her to have a drink text a wile first then ask her if all three of u wanna hang out sumwhere and c if she wants to bring a frend
2006-10-22 18:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by tigressstarcub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends..... does she know who you are... or are you just some random guy that nods at her in the corridor, for gods sake you have already said you know her well enough to chat, JUST ASK HER!!
when you are chatting, just let it slip you are going for a drink/coffee/tea or what ever and ask her if she would like to tag along..
2006-10-22 18:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should call or txt her. What are you waiting for. While your thinking about it , someone else may come along and beat you to it. go for it and best of luck
2006-10-22 19:04:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋