We have a child together and although i know we're not going to get back together i can't help but feel it's not right the way he doesn't even call and check up on her or anything else for that matter.I wanna call and give him a piece of my mind but that will just make things worse,trust me i've done it before and i've tried talking to him about it too,nothing works.I know all i can do is wait and hopefully he'll come around but that doesn't stop me from wanting to call him and i know if i do call,i'll just end up all stressed out and depressed some more.What would you do if you were in my situation?How would you fight the urge to not call?
2006-10-22 11:15:40 · 5 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its completely understandable..you have a child that is from BOTH of you. and you may still have feelings for him that also wants to make you call him.....another reason is that you may want to call him cuz u don't want ur child not to have her father there.......... here is something to think about... would he be a good influence on the child or would he set a bad example...could you handle seeing him if he decided to come see ur child? if he would be a good influence and u could handle seeing him call him and tell him NICELY that u think he should come spend sometime with his daughter.....if he doesn't want any part of it then he isn't worth the stress. hope all goes well!
2006-10-22 11:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Calling to " give him a piece of your mind" is not a good idea...it's OK to call if you stick with the issues that concern you. He SHOULD be concerned about his child and that is an issue. But to call him and rant is not an good idea. If you need too write down what is bothering you before you call. Make a list and stick to it but don't just call and complain. I say call him ...but stick to the issues revolving around the child and other unsolved issues that have to do with the relationship.
2006-10-22 18:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why fight with yourself to begin with. Admit you have the desire to have a family. Admit that it isn't happening yet. Understand that your desire may have caused the problem. You can only be responsible for you and your child. Don't take on any more until it's time. If all else fails try some choclate.
2006-10-22 18:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by Stan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depending on the age of your child, you could call and say something like "I just called to let you know that your child is doing okay since you don't call to check on him/her"
2006-10-22 18:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first prove thats my baby then we can talk
2006-10-22 18:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dr shiznet 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋