the 3rd person is his ex gf and we have been thinking of adding another person what dou think
2006-10-22 11:08:28 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that this is not healthy.
2006-10-22 11:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It wouldnt really matter what we think .. It matters on how it makes you feel. If you are happy about it by all means forget what the world thinks. If it makes you uncomfortable no guy is worth the headaches. Thats alot to soak in. How does him n his ex and you make you feel? Do you all know the 4th? good luck
2006-10-22 11:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by mixedchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to do what makes you happy, having said that I do wonder why you two feel the need for more than each other in the bedroom. There are many things the two of you can do together to break up the monotony and bring you closer to each other without sharing the most intimate parts of your lives with other people.
2006-10-22 11:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by momma 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
first of all i think you have ruined your relationship. i know from experience. 3somes are fun but they shouldnt be done in a serious relationship, it ruined mine. now if you have a bedroom buddy and looking for excitement then i say have fun. maybe your relationship is different from what mine was. i couldnt stand the thought of him being with someone else. can you handle that? but you should have really choose someone other than his ex! it should have been someone both of you are attracted to and someone new i think
2006-10-22 11:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by angie_d_121074 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stand naked on a street corner with "free pun-tang" on your head and see who you can recruit!! Maybe your Dad!! I hate to ask if your being safe b/c I think I already know the answer... You will grow up and realize that this point in your life was a mistake and regret it... It's so sad that women are not taught to respect their bodies more... Have fun with your gang bang... or having a train run on you... Hopefully you won't end up with crotch-rot!
2006-10-22 11:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's all cheating. Even if it's right in front of you and you say it's OK. There must be some part of you that wants her to stay out of your relationship. It's not healthy and it will hurt you in the long run.
2006-10-22 11:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're either a guy acting like a girl and posting your fantasy, or you have a very lucky bf with a really dumb ex.
2006-10-22 11:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats pretty disturbing that you are taking something so special and so sacred and turning it into some sick little game. i think you should ask why do people even have three somes b/c honeslty i would like to know.
2006-10-22 11:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that, stop doing it. she is a ex for a reason. Find someone else if that is what gets you all off.... Drop the ex do it now!!!!!
2006-10-22 11:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by im_all_about_sports 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are swinging I say bravo to you all! Swinging is the greatest lifestyle choice that a couple can make! Invite more!
2006-10-22 11:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by dumb guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you are an adult, no one is being lied to, or hurt, and you have no problem with all of this then go for it. Just remember, how long can this go on? Will he want to stop if and when you do? Is this someone you may want to share your future with? Just think about it... :)
2006-10-22 11:12:27 · answer #11 · answered by Rattail 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋