i suspect this is going on......
heres what happened.
it was just me and my dad on the car and someone called and i knew it wasnt my mom..my dad answered and said"mami"(in spanish that is an affectionate term that husbands say to their wife) im going there tonight. (thats what he said) so then i told him to lend me his phone so i could call my cellphone because i "lost it"" (he is very mysterious and dosent let anyone touch his phone) and when i looked up the number that called him a woman answered. im really worried and i know its not my buissness but i wanna die right now......help! what should i do??????????????
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2006-10-22 10:58:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
icalled the lady and when she answered she was really rude and i couldnt say anything so i made up a name out of the blue (sophia was the name i thought of) and she said her name was "yanislaydis" and i asked my dad if he knew someone with that name and he said "no"?
2006-10-22 11:06:59 · update #1
btw my dad dosent call just anyone "mami" hes very classy and his mother isnt alive so it wasnt my grandmother. and he dosent even call my mom that so this lady must be a h.o.e
2006-10-22 11:10:29 · update #2
first dont tell your mom .. she will be deeply sad and feel bad that he is decieving her ..
try to fix it by your self .. be patient and try to be lovely with him , so he feel how much his family is lovely and warm .. and that they need him and that he needs him .. during this try to find if there are any problems between your parents which made him do that (its not necessary that there are problems) .. try to do lovely things for your family so feels how much you are important to him .. you can talk to him but in a good manner so he doest get angry and feel that you are interfering in his personal life .. try to show him that you are protecting the nice family you live with .. and that you need it and him .. and that you are old enough to concern about your beloved family ...
wish you the best !!
2006-10-22 11:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Geo06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now this is serious. My dad does the same thing with his girl friends. He calls them "mami" or "mamita" or "ma" so according to that it wouldn't be suspicious. But now that he doesn't want anyone to see his phone and when you look ed up the number it was a women thats when its getting dangerous. #1 thing to do is NOT to tell your mom right away. Find yourself first then tell her. You don't want to seem stupid for suspecting somthing that is not true. What you do is call this lady back if you can get the number. and talk to her. Don't call her from your dad's cellphone. DON'T! Then become friends with her and make up a story on why you called her. Then if your dad comes home late for a while now or he is happier than usual and not spending as much time with your mom then there is something to worry about. But if nothing is really happening and he is acting normal with the family. You may not want to worry about it.
2006-10-22 11:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, YES, it IS your business and you have EVERY right to know!!! If it's true, he's ruining YOUR life AND your mother's! Ask him if it's okay if you look at his phone. If he freaks out about it, he's OBVIOUSLY hiding something! When he's not around and he leaves his phone, check through his texts and messages. BE NOSEY! You have every right to know what's going on in his personal life because he is your FATHER, and as a father, he has to realize that what he's doing has a deep, lasting impact on his family, and not only is calling another woman "mami" disrespectful, but doing it in front of YOU lacks a lot of class and morals on his part. Tell your mother about your suspisions. Become detectives together and find out what he's doing behind your back. If it's true, I wouldn't let it go. He's your father and he needs to learn how to act like one.
2006-10-22 11:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by bumblebeemeggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg! I'm so sorry!
I would ask him who was on the phone if she calls again
and just ask him if your mom is the only woman in his life because you just want to know whats going on!
2006-10-22 11:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by Caroline M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can remember the number write it down and leave it just lying around in different places in the house. hopefully your mom will call it just to see why this number is so popular in her home.
2006-10-22 11:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by Quociana L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are positive about it before you say anything to your Mom. She should know so she can deal with it.
2006-10-22 11:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain this story to your mom......and she can talk to him about it....but if you do not want them to split.......just keep it a secret (but it is better if your mom knows) its all about loyalty...and your mom deserves it...and good luck to you cause Hun the road might get bumpy!
2006-10-25 03:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was u I would firstly blackmail my dad for shitloads of stuff (lol), and if he refused I would have tell my mom and beat the crap outta him :)
2006-10-22 11:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by The Emperor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sooooooo sooooo sorry! You should be tough and ask her father if this is happening. Councler's always will make you feel better, and they can help you! Im soooo sorry again.........and remember be strong! :(
2006-10-22 11:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by elise(= 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say anything to your mom
but talk to your father
it is important that you two talk
if you wish maybe you can talk to the woman (be nice)
2006-10-22 11:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋