I am a 13 year old female. I have a wonderful bf who just moved to alberta :'(. We only talk on msn and on the phone and he's always talking about a girl named Jedda. should I be worried? When i asked him he just said " Oh, baby i'd never cheat on you. I love you you mean everything to me...." Should i trust him or is he cheating on me?
2006-10-22 10:50:37 · 8 answers · asked by Jane ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My Boyfriend is 15 and is reallly good looking wen we go places people always look him up and down. But i no there is a popular girl at school and she wanted to get with him and he turned her down.
2006-10-22 10:57:05 · update #1
Also he is moving home by the time he's 17.
2006-10-22 10:58:21 · update #2
No one on here can tell you if he's cheating or not. He's just made a new friend and that's all you know or any of us know. It wouldn't be such a bad thing if it was another girl though. The sooner your relationship with him ends, the better. I know how cold that sounds, but it'd be a shame if you two kept up a long distance relatoinship at such a young age and then broke up at the age of 17 or something, which is what will more than likely happen, just probably not quite so far into the future. You'll have missed out on so much if something like that happens though. I know you care for him, I know you don't want to break up with him, but it'll almost definitely happen sooner or later, and when it does I wonder how much of your social life you'll have missed out on and how much of the 'dating scene' you won't have experienced in the years where it's supposed to be the most fun. Good luck to you..
2006-10-22 10:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me just say, you're 13.....this isn't the guy you're going to be with forever. I say at your age....don't settle for one guy. It's going to take many before you find someone to be with for a long time.
He's either talking about this girl a lot b/c he's either trying to get a reaction out of you (such as jealousy), or there IS something going on (he might just have a crush....and yes that can happen if you're not totally about the person you're with).
If you like him....I say keep your guard up, and keep an eye open for other boys. You're not getting married any time soon.
2006-10-22 10:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by circa 1980 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh I'me sorry honey..if he is not cheating right now it wont be long, he has another girl on his mind..find someone else youre young you have lots of time..
2006-10-22 11:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by dr.pepper106 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young you dont need a steady b/f at your age go out have fun
2006-10-22 10:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will not be able to stay loyal, u r to far away, at 13 niether one of you have enuff control, nor shud u, move on
2006-10-22 10:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by menguss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I think he's found a new girl closer to his new home. It's probably over, sorry to say.
2006-10-22 10:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you are very young.
feel for friendship only till you are matured.
then everything goes well.
2006-10-22 10:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u'r both still young, that's very normal. just move on.
2006-10-22 10:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by Leon the african 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋