me and my aunty are so close but she just told me that im ugli and smelly and im really upset what do u think i should say to her? : ( im so sad about this coz i no she was being serious??
2006-10-22 10:48:32 · 16 answers · asked by Random_2k7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Did she just say that and not offer any solutions.The best thing for you to do is to turn that hurt into a strength. Go back to your aunt and say something like. When you said those things about me it hurt, So what help do you have for me ask about femine hygiene, does she have beauty tips. And finally if she was in your shoes what would she do?
Some of the things she might say to you may hurt. But the goal is to stop anyone else from saying that to you and if you can achieve that then you have beaten those hurtful comments and learnt to take pride in your appreance. It will make you stronger and its a strengh that you can use for the rest of your life.
2006-10-26 08:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by wandera1970 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her to mind her own fuc**** business, you are beautiful inside and that's all that counts, there are plenty of ugly and smelly people in the world you will just have to find where they hang out cause it ain't the places that i hang. It sounds like you do need help, being ugly and smelly must be a terrible thing I'm glad that i am not. Good luck with your life cause your ganna need it !!!!!! Only being honest. ( Love ya really babe, your the most beautiful girl that I know, with the kindest heart, the sweetest smell, but u do have ugly feet) xxxxxxxxx
2006-10-22 10:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was just having a bad day, go back to her next week and ask her the same thing but take some precautions.
1.Bath & Shower - you can't wrong with too much bathing - just don't lose skin.
2.Brush your teeth more than once and do a breath check halitosis or gingivitis is noones friend and certainly shouldn't be someones middle name.
3.Make your general appearance neat and tidy.
If she still says it then she has got issues.
Let me know how you get on.
x1x
Really would like to know the outcome.
Please don't take any of the above offensively as not directed at you personally just trying to help.
x1x
2006-10-22 10:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie Pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is ugly? I do not find myself very beautiful but I love me! look at your aunty do find her perfect? does she have everything beautiful? cos not! I know so many people who normally are not very attractive but you can not stop loving them because they have a great personality. So, tell your aunty you don't think so! Be honest with yourself, if you are smelly, there are sprays and water. at last, do not be afraid to speak your mind and remember you only live once, be happy, make yourself happy and confident and to hell everybody who come across your path.
2006-10-22 11:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mex d'or 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she was so mean!! she is your aunty and should be looking out for you not putting you down!On the other hand perhaps she told you this as you are so close,its always difficult to tell someone they smell,if this is the case ask her to help you,maybe help you out with make-up or something to make you feel better,she may not realise how much she's upset you so try and talk to her,good luck and remember,its whats inside that counts!
2006-10-25 04:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by lisa k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what a cheek!! if she says that to somebody she is close to i would hate to hear what she said about somebody she doesn't like!!even if she is having a bad day, there is absolutely no excuse for saying something like that to you, speak to her and tell her how its made you feel i am sure you are not ugly and smelly
2006-10-26 04:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by bluebell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was really mean! Was she angry with you? If she wasn't you should ask her to help you look beautiful. I'm sure she wasn't trying to hurt you if you are close. And I'm sure your not ugly. Take a deep breath. Great.
2006-10-22 10:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by chelsea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God didn't make us all perfect, some got the short straw, and by the sounds of your aunty you are one of them, sorry
2006-10-22 10:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ivan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i t seems that your aunt answered the question any way!
But surley having a monkey as an aunt means that she is smelly ugly AND hairy??
2006-10-23 01:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by GeorgieP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouldn't say anything to her because she is telling you this because she cares about you. Other people wouldn't tell you that. So she is trying to help you improve yourself to make you a better person. You should ask her how can you improve yourself instead of felling bad.
2006-10-22 11:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋