It should be easy, right? He doesn't show interest in me like he used to, and he doesn't want a relationship with me, It seems as if I am depressed as well over him, what can I do to realize that we will never be together and be okay with it.
2006-10-22 10:43:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think one of the best things to do is wait. I know its really hard and might take a long time but if you give him some time to see some other girls and look at things he might just come back to you! Good luck! :]
2006-10-22 11:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat and no its not easy especially when you had feelings for that person and they just played games with your heart. I dated a man for about a month and he did the same thing to me. I was really sad and depressed at first but then I got myself together, and picked my head up. I realized if he doesn't appreciate me there will be someone who does and you will find someone who does appreciate you too. Unfortunately we have to kiss a lot of frogs before we get to our prince.
My advice to you is to get over your emotions by crying, or just letting it all out. It's OK because you are human. Next after you get your emotions out, start going out more and finding hobbies that you like to get your mind off of him. Work on improving yourself physically, spiritually, and emotionally so when your Mr. Right does come along, you will be ready and he will love every inch of you. Also, did you sleep with him? If so, next time, wait for a long time before you give it up. That way you know for sure he is into you and not just into your pants. Good luck!
2006-10-22 10:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by chocolatebabycakes 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious to whom? Why do you think this, what has he done or what is he not doing anymore? Is it possible that he's simply in a comfort zone that he needs to snap out of? Has he told you that he no longer wants to be in this relationship with you or are you assuming that's what he wants because you believe he's no longer interested? Just trying to help, it's pretty hare when you don't give us a little insight to the situation...some will jump to conclusions..... Hope to hear more from you & good luck
2006-10-22 10:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rejection hurts and you're entitled to lick your wounds. It's also a good time to figure out why your Mr. Right turned out to be Mr. Wrong so you don't get hurt again. Looking back on my life, I now thank God that it didn't work out with the guys that I thought were perfect at the time.
2006-10-22 10:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put it in ur mind its not meant to be and that there is another guy out there for you. Maybe u have already met him maybe u havent but once u realize it he will blow your mind away and u wont even have time to think about this other guy. it just takes time
2006-10-22 10:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by Katy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we females are curious creatures.......if a guy loses interest are brows raise in curiousity and we want to know why and we mask it by thinking were interested in him too but really we just want to know why hes not............. keep searching honey dont worry youll find the one who is worth it....obviously this one is not......
2006-10-22 10:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lauretha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya, going through the same....Find another outlet, stay strong, meet new people, get out more, remember how you have been treated, forget the 'few good times', and live large!! Smile, you are not alone, I am here, going through it to....
2006-10-22 10:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by Rattail 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start seeking other male companionship let them fill your head up a bit and give you the confidence you need to stand on your own and move on.
2006-10-22 10:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. Think about what you need to have a good relationship and how you didn't have what you needed, but the feelings take time so you need to be patient.
2006-10-22 10:46:25 · answer #9 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...........it's just a normal emotional phase,. everyone goes through,..."when the cake they put in the oven did'nt got cooked" .......basically a phase that everyone on the planet has gone through.......
2006-10-22 11:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋