One of my friends told me that my bf's friends were making fun of me by calling me saggy. He just laughed along with them and told them it was a good nickname for me. Later he also told my friend that i was getting on his nerves in a bad way. Then i call him to confront him and he ends up blaming it on me. I've tried many times to leave him but i cant becuz i love him too much. What should i do????
2006-10-22 10:40:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was reading all the responses and they sound like what every girl would say, however I bet that if they were all in your situation they would be putting it up with him, your problem is that his attitude (the bad boy attitude,lack of interest and all that) is attracting you in a way that probably gives you the hope that he will change and give you a happy ending, now I am a guy and I know guys like that don't change, your question why he makes fun of you...well thats because he knows he has you and you won't be able to leave. He is so selfconfident (also something that attracts alot of girls) that he will do what he pleases and let's face it, we all love to laugh thats why he lets their friends laugh at you.
My recomendation, break his confidence in your mind not his, and you'll see you will start losing that thing you feel for him.
2006-10-22 10:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the dipshit before he hurts yuo in some other way such as physical, emotionally spiritually or leaves you with child while he mose off to be with friends.
Tell him Your're too pretty for him, and beside you don't need another ashole you already have one.
Thi sguy i strouble for you. Better get out and liv elif eas a young woman should without this kind of trash hurting yuo
2006-10-22 17:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What can you do other than leave him? He is no good. If he loved you he would not be treating you in this way. No man that loves his woman will disrespect her to her face or behind her back. If he loved you he would defend your honour. If you know what is best for you, you would lose the loser. Staying with him will only cause you hurt in the long run as he clearly doesn't care about you or your feelings.
2006-10-22 17:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really love him? I know that its hard to just dump him. And if you really love him you could say hey if your gonna keep on making fun of me with your friends, and then if he trys to blame on you go I dont want t hear it! And say if you dont stop then I am gonna date some other guys and see if there some one out there that better for me! And that might scare him a little so he might stop. But you dont have take my advice cause thats probably gonna be really hard to do! But think about it and good luck!
2006-10-22 17:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him if he's not making you happy. Maybe he'd really miss you too, so he'd come trying to get you back and he'd have to show you some respect and treat you right.
I know sometimes guys talk all manly with their friends trying to be cool, but if he's blaming it on you he sounds kinda like a dick so I'd let him know you're better than that and if he can't respect you that you'll find some guy who can.
2006-10-22 17:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Will B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you love about him? The fact that he lets his friends insult you and even joins in? That he says you're getting on his nerves and he blames you for his mean behavior? If he ever hauls off and hits you, you'll be ready to plan a wedding at the rate you're going.
2006-10-22 17:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by Debra D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saggy? You really want to be with a guy that find someone saying that about you to be funny? That is awful and he is an *** to have gone along with it and obviously has no respect for you or your relationship. This guy does not deserve your love -- if he loved you he would defend you, not humiliate you.
Work on your self esteem.
2006-10-22 17:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by lucydesi1940 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't love someone that disrespects you. A good boyfriend would defend you and not talk about you behind his back.Dump him,it'll hurt for a little while, but he's already hurt you in the relationship. And at least you can have control over the situation.
2006-10-22 17:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he makes fun of you and laughs he is worth nothing. He doesn't care about you. As for loving him so much you have to move on to someone whos cares about you.
2006-10-22 17:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend in a simelar prediciment.....the guy's problem is that he cares too much about what his friends think of him and thinks he has some kind of image to uphold....and because of this he'l go along with whatever someone says about you- but thats not how he really feels
just talk to him about that and see if you cant change him
2006-10-22 17:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by Peace35 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋