If you're not that experienced do you think it's a good idea to sleep around a bit so that when you meet someone you really like you're more able to show them a good time in the sack?
2006-10-22 10:40:28 · 21 answers · asked by micktravis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should have asked for responses from people who have experienced more than one or two partners.
All I can say is that it's just like everything else...Practice Makes Perfect.
We all learn something new from each partner, whether it's good or not.
Two really important things to remember:
#1 Don't have sex with anyone who is under 18.
#2 ALWAYS use protection as it's both partners responsibilty to use it.
2006-10-22 10:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jerrid 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, when you meet someone you really like, you will enjoy learning what makes each other feel good. That a large number of sexual partners makes you "good" in bed is a myth. Everyone is different and responds to different sensations. You would be much much better off reading some of the many excellent books to get a basic understanding rather than risk STDs by "sleeping around." Try "Joy of Sex" for a start and go from there.
2006-10-22 17:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by Alan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Regret not sleeping with more people befor i got into a serious relationship.
Although im in love i still think of all the missed opportunities. all ican say is it depends on the indavidule you know if you want to sleep with more people or not.
I would still read up on the subject, watch porn and any show on TV like Sextips for girls/boy ect.
The most important thing is to always where protection and take your time. Even if the other person doesnt want to ALWAYS where protection its just not worth dieing early for sex.
2006-10-22 19:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by banditdoz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, thats dumb, a girl will find it hot if they're the one they want to start with. And if the girl doesnt like u if ur bad at "sleeping", they sh'es stupid and isnt worth it. You can learn how to do it right from books and stuff. Besides, if you do it with alot of ppl ,the chances r u could get AIDS then wen u meat the right person, u wont be able to be with them cuz ull we all diseased. Dont do it. Just wait.
2006-10-22 17:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In theory it's a good idea, in practice it's very demoralising. For every one good shag you're gonna get 10 crap shags. Best to read up a bit and then try out stuff on a special someone or f*ck buddy.
2006-10-22 17:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think that's a good idea. If you meet someone you really likes and that someone really likes you back you should experiment with them. That is much more fun.
2006-10-22 17:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by IC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldnt sleep around just for the sake of it. If you really love her and want to be intimate, then thats a good reason. There will be plenty of time for learning together.
2006-10-22 17:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by John S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you won't get any relationship experiece with sleeping around, it only hurt people who cares about you. Love is 2 ways things, sometimes you love people who doesn't love you back or the other way around. When you find someone who you love and love you back, do not messed it up or you will regret it. Once she/he gone... she/he gone...
2006-10-22 17:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by Lilu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because its more than likly tht person u meet may not be sexually experienced either and don't u not think that it mite be a good thing to share your virginty with someone that actually means something to you
2006-10-22 17:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by amyjaney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you meet someone you really like and they really like you it will be great anyway. What wouldn't be so great is if you got yourself a reputation as a sleaze bag that would go with anyone!
2006-10-22 17:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by trixi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋