I went out with this guy from my math class all summer, we really liked each other adn there was nothing wrong in our relationship, then one day he just decides to break up with me. Then school starts and we both start going out with other ppl. Im not happy, but i still like the guy im going out with now. I want to go back out with him but he said he doesn tlike me anymore. Is there anyway to get him back? He isnt in love with his gf right now, and was alread considering breaking up with her. I cant be happy without him, so dont say for me to get over him. Iv tried for months. I see him in the hall everyday and i see him smiling and it kills me. I just want to be with him again. Help please, tell me anything!
2006-10-22 10:22:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems you are deeply in love with the guy ..
But you know something..he told u already that he doesn't like u anymore ..u'll make a fool of urself if u go tell him "wana b back with u"..its humiliating..and SO DESPERATE..
So here's an idea ..be friends with him ..and get closer and closer to him ..Be a part of his daily life ..that he'll feel something is wrong if he doesn't see u ..Be good looking,funny,spontaneous and sexy.Seduce him again..but all in low profile ..in the name of friendship.. not something else ;) ;)
then he'll realize that he lost you and he'll try to get back to u ..
Good Luck .. :)
2006-10-22 10:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I remember how it felt to be in high school! I know how much it hurts when someone you love tells you it's over! It feels like nothing will ever get any better and that you will never fall in love with anyone else again! I am here to say that you will fall in love again and probably many times in your life! Don't try to force a relationship with your ex! He will only either take you back and then hurt you once again or tell you to leave him alone. Don't risk getting hurt again! When he smiles at you smile back and keep on doing what it was you were doing before. Later on in life you will glad you did this! It does not pay to be nasty so just smile and let him know exactly what a great person he has missed out on! That way you can remain available for Mr. Right to come along someday!
2006-10-22 17:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by rascal8924 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would u wanna be w/ someone who "doesn't want u"?
Ur feelings won't be reciprocated, and u are essentially asking this guy to forgo any and all feelings opposing u.
He can no more do this any more than u can forgo ur feelings for him. And if he were to, u may find urself being taken advantage of. I think that u are already degrading urself by letting this guy see that not even his rejection of u is a deterrent. U can't make a person like u, nor make them love u. Don't give up a luv u already have for someone who may never luv u back.
2006-10-22 17:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, ask him why he doesn't like you anymore. I know that you won't like the answers, but it will help you to understand where he is coming from. Other than that, the only thing you can do is move on. You still have plenty of time in life, there are plenty of men out there who will continue to give you the time of day no matter what.
2006-10-22 17:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by redheadedmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well start by being his friend again, then yall you start hanging out with a few of yall friends together. Then yall should just start hanging out together, and after a while he wiould have feelings for you, and you should to. But just take it slow, a step at a time. Just go up to him and start a conversation, just start to become his friend, and take it from there. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-22 17:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i think that if you cant get over him the best way to get him back is to act like your normal self i think guys like confidence in girls dont go up to him and tell him you want to go back with him just say hi to him smile at him and talk to him normally maybe your charm and confidence around him and how you act with him will make him want you back if he still doesn't just try to ignore him and avoid him in Thu hallways and in class find a hobby you like it might take your mind off of him hope i helped good luck!
2006-10-22 17:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need closure.Talk to him and find out why he broke up with you,explain to him how you feel and would like to work things out and try the relationship out again.If he agrees Great.If not at least you won't be asking yourself,what went wrong.
2006-10-22 17:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way you are feeling now, that guy felt the same way being with you. If he was happy with you, he would have continued his relationship with you. Would you rather be happy and have him be miserable? If you really love and care for him, then please let him go.
2006-10-22 17:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by gateach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you and I are in the 'same' boat, I wish I could get over my situation too. :) Time, and get out there to meet new people. That 'may' help.
2006-10-22 19:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Rattail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a rumor that you were with him while his girlfriend wasnt around. then if he asks you how this started tell him that you were woundering the samething but didn't want to cause problems with him and his girlfriend.
2006-10-22 17:35:51 · answer #10 · answered by Joel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋