I love this girl very very much, all the time i think of her and it has been happenning since last four years, she used to reply my e-mail sometimes, but now she doesn't. she is totally out of touch now. I can't pass any single moment without thinking of her. My love is really really true and any how I have to achieve it. tell me how it's possible. I know her university and subject, I can go to see her but I don't dare to tell her everything, cause if she refuses me, I won't be able to tolerate that. Tell me what can I do??
2006-10-22 10:20:52 · 9 answers · asked by gogon_h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go for it the worst thing 2 do would b to live life without knowing
2006-10-22 10:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If u truly love this girl then I think u need to tell her but not by stalking her sweetheart. It won't do any good. I think the reason is that she is probably busy with her college life either way confess to her and let her know how u feel. Tell her all about ur life if maybe she won't reply to u by mail then try to call her but just be cool about it. Lately I've lost touch with my teacher whom I had a crush on for 2 years after leaving highschool knowing that he is quite busy with the new set of students especially the 11th graders preparing them for their exams. At first I thought was there something wrong that I've said or was it that he's busy? well I figured he is and I should give him sometime he'll reply after all I got his e-mail address and for me to stay in touch with him so not only him but my other teachers too. You should look on the bright side and give her sometime she'll reply to u and remember if u feel that she's still out of touch with you call her but don't stammer and freak out just stay cool and be who you are surprise her and ask her about herself and try to get her to understand ur feelings and then when the time is right u surprise her even more by asking her out on a date just keep it steady at first.
good luck.
2006-10-22 15:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont want to tell ur feelings to her? And what do you expect, she come to your place and ask you if u like her.
Cmon be a man. Maybe shes waiting 4 ur action too. Your suppose to be the one who make the first move.
i know it hurts if someone refuses you but are u not hurting this time. Dont let her slip away....,, or your be sorry 4 life.
Goodluck. ("",)
2006-10-22 21:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that the heart grows even fonder in someones absence.. :)
Just go up there and say 'surprise!'.
Go for a meal or something, you don't have to express everything in a long perfected speech.. Let it come out naturally and in good time.
2006-10-22 10:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by morphed_uk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you rather leave things as they are where you don't speak anyway, or tell her, if you don't speak...so what! you wasn't speaking anyway, but at least she knows how you feel.
sounds like your in love as you say you are always thinking of her, so go up to her, go for a coffee and tell her how you feel
2006-10-22 10:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for you but i couldn't stop laughing at dean h answer!!!! think maybe you should get on and live your life if i was you.
2006-10-22 10:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound desperate,no wonder she's blanking you,sounds like you never even met her,best thing you can do is grow up & get a life.
2006-10-22 10:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by Chocoholic 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she obviously doesnt want to talk to you , it sounds like you need to move on mate .
2006-10-22 10:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound to me like you need to GET a grip mate
2006-10-22 10:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by dean h 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋